Well, I got back from Dublin a whole week ago now and life has been very sedate since. I've been fulfilling my role as a Mother and sorting out a few things that needed doing, but really there is a forboding sense of being in 'limbo' about me at the moment, since I no longer have a place to take in calls from.
Sadly plans to be up and running in Cheltenham in March have fallen through. I'm not entirely sure why, but I hope it is a glitch and not something that will follow me to my next choice of location. I will be resuming my search this week and fingers crossed will be able to put the matter straight, as I'm finding it awfully frustrating at the moment when the phone rings and I have to apologies for not being available for in calls.
For the moment I am trying to make myself available for outcalls, but I hope you can appreciate being a Mum, I can't just disappear at a moments notice. Things need arranging and excuses need making and I also need to shower, put my make-up on and dress appropriately, which of course is not my every day look for around the home and all takes time.
If you would like to book for for an outcall I would love to come to you, but please, please, give me as much notice as you possibly can. I hope that you would not be disappointed, after all this lack of opportunity is doing nothing for my sex life lol and I'm missing it probably far more than my regs who are presently unable to see me.
Due to the fact that I am not presently able to offer in calls unless on tour, I will not be charging any fuel costs within Worcestershire, Gloucestershire or birmingham. However the length of the booking will be affected. I will take half hour bookings only within Worcester itself. One hour bookings within a 20 mile radius and 2 hour plus every where else.
I'm also happy to continue offering, wine, dine & 69 bookings with one hour private time, plus social time at £250 and 2 hours private time, plus social at £350. This is a set rate for any of the above locations, with your accomodation, be it a hotel or your residents.
I will only take overnight bookings from gentleman I have met before.
I will of course let you know if and when the situation changes, but I think next time I will wait until I have signed on the dotted line.
Take care all and I hope to see you soon.
Kate x
English Kate In Belfast a short walk from the Albert Clock. Also touring the Republic of Ireland. Ask if you would like me to tour in your area x Tel: 07564749474 or 086 400 6295
Sunday, 26 February 2012
Tuesday, 31 January 2012
New starts
2011 ended with a bit of unheavel for me. After getting my first apartment in April, I was very wary of the neighbours and never wanted to push it, so in the main I worked Monday to Friday during office hours and rarely took on more than 3 clients in a day. I continuted touring as well, which meant that I was often not using the apartment at all, but still soon after renewing the contract for a 2nd time for a further 6 months the trouble began.
The apartments had a committee and they had sent a letter direct to the letting agency complaining that my curtains were always drawn and that they were suspicious of the amount of visitors I was having. I directly sent a letter of explanation. My landlord already knew that I was working from the apartment, as I had told them and they were fine about it. I also explained that my Mum had been having problems and that I had been staying with her, hence the curtains shut. Thankfully the agency and my landlord were happy with this, but not the committee, who then continued to send me threatening letters.
The message threatened me with the Act of 1956, section 33. For those of you that don't know it, it is concerned with brothels and there to protect people from being trafficed and abused and has absolutely nothing to do with independent Escorts. This alone had no hold on me, but... they said that they would contact the police if I continued to work from the apartment and that they had ways of finding out who my visitors were and would get the police onto them as well. I assumed by this they meant that they would take note of their vehicle registration numbers. So despite the fact that I was doing nothing wrong I immediately decided to stop using my apartment.
This meant that I was still having to pay the rent and in order to pay the rent I needed to continue touring and using other premises and make more excuses for not being home. This has been stressful as I do also run a business and have a dependent at home, so things have had to suffer. I've obviously not been able to save any money over the last 3 months or so and have had to dip into my savings to keep afloat, which is soul destroying, as I was starting to do really well and was more than half way towards paying off my first big loan.
Thankfully things have really started to turn around though and the pressure is nearly off. I'm going to be moving from Worcester and taking myself down the M5 slightly and working 10 minutes off the M5, J10 instead. The place is very different to the space I am used to but, it's perfect for what I need and I am really looking forward to it. I am hoping to be there in time for the Gold Cup, which is great as I have wanted to work there during the gold cup for the last 2 years, but the prices of accomodation are way too high at that time.
Hopefully some of my regulars will follow me there, although I understand that some of them will not be able to travel that far and would like to thank them for all the lovely times we have had together. I also look forward to meeting some new people and getting some new regulars. I believe I have already met one, who was very sweet and helped me with which area to look at within Cheltenham. I met him for the first time yesterday, as I'm currently working in cheltenham for the week and he was lovely.
So... fingers crossed for 2012 and new beginnings. I believe I have learnt a lot from this experience and it's so good to see light at the end of the tunnel.
Kate x
The apartments had a committee and they had sent a letter direct to the letting agency complaining that my curtains were always drawn and that they were suspicious of the amount of visitors I was having. I directly sent a letter of explanation. My landlord already knew that I was working from the apartment, as I had told them and they were fine about it. I also explained that my Mum had been having problems and that I had been staying with her, hence the curtains shut. Thankfully the agency and my landlord were happy with this, but not the committee, who then continued to send me threatening letters.
The message threatened me with the Act of 1956, section 33. For those of you that don't know it, it is concerned with brothels and there to protect people from being trafficed and abused and has absolutely nothing to do with independent Escorts. This alone had no hold on me, but... they said that they would contact the police if I continued to work from the apartment and that they had ways of finding out who my visitors were and would get the police onto them as well. I assumed by this they meant that they would take note of their vehicle registration numbers. So despite the fact that I was doing nothing wrong I immediately decided to stop using my apartment.
This meant that I was still having to pay the rent and in order to pay the rent I needed to continue touring and using other premises and make more excuses for not being home. This has been stressful as I do also run a business and have a dependent at home, so things have had to suffer. I've obviously not been able to save any money over the last 3 months or so and have had to dip into my savings to keep afloat, which is soul destroying, as I was starting to do really well and was more than half way towards paying off my first big loan.
Thankfully things have really started to turn around though and the pressure is nearly off. I'm going to be moving from Worcester and taking myself down the M5 slightly and working 10 minutes off the M5, J10 instead. The place is very different to the space I am used to but, it's perfect for what I need and I am really looking forward to it. I am hoping to be there in time for the Gold Cup, which is great as I have wanted to work there during the gold cup for the last 2 years, but the prices of accomodation are way too high at that time.
Hopefully some of my regulars will follow me there, although I understand that some of them will not be able to travel that far and would like to thank them for all the lovely times we have had together. I also look forward to meeting some new people and getting some new regulars. I believe I have already met one, who was very sweet and helped me with which area to look at within Cheltenham. I met him for the first time yesterday, as I'm currently working in cheltenham for the week and he was lovely.
So... fingers crossed for 2012 and new beginnings. I believe I have learnt a lot from this experience and it's so good to see light at the end of the tunnel.
Kate x
Tuesday, 10 January 2012
The secret to the smile!
This weekend while parking up in town I noticed my Mum's car was already parked up in the carpark. I duly rang her to find out where she was and what she was doing and we arranged to meet up for tea and cake in one of the local stores. It transpired that she had my sister's step daughter with her and I happen to know that she is mad on Hello Kitty, so when I saw some Hello Kitty things on sale in WHSmith I felt compelled to buy her a little notepad and pen, as I thought it would keep her happy while we chatted.
When I got to the store they were already there and we organised a cup of tea and shared a yummy doughnut, which was very nice and naughty. My Mum said that she had been asked who she was talking to my the little girl with us and she asked if it was my Sister on the phone, where upon my Mum replied, 'No it wasn't ****** it was ****** the happy one! She was far too cheerful to be *****! Which is when she took a step back from her thoughts and realised what she had said and apparently they started to discuss between them how I am always happy, even when things are not going well in my life.
My first reaction was to be happy funnily enough that they both thought I was a happy person lol and they liked being around me for that reason. Then my Mum asked me how I stay so happy and at the time I really could not put my finger on it, but in truth if I had I would not be able to tell her, because I truely believe that it is down to the Escorting I am doing. It kind of kills two birds with one stone.
Let me explain. Before I started Escorting I did have escalating debts. I can't profess to be swimming in money now, but my bills are being paid and I am slowly banking up small amounts that will one day go towards paying off my debts and that is a very very satisfying feeling, especially for someone like myself who is very independent and proud of being self sufficient. Then of course there is that most wonderful act of SEX! I can't begin to tell you how much I enjoy it, how much I love making other people happy and adore being stimulated to the point of no return. I love it, love it, love it! How could anyone not be happy when they are being given the opportinity to get deliciously tactile with such a wonderful array of people? Not just that but the lovely warm hugs, the smiles, the laughter and the euphoria that you can't help but feel when being intimate with someone.
If anyone can let me know a way of explaining this happiness to my Mum without giving the game away I would be eternally grateful lol, as I really don't think she would understand, bless her.
Having said all that, I should be feeling rather glum today, as I have effectively paid for 2 apartments in which to work and not one booking. Thank God for the lovely gentleman I saw yesterday afternoon, as I'm still revelling from that and how they made me feel. I hope I do get a top up tomorrow though, as it's my last full day of being able to take incalls before next week.
Kate x
When I got to the store they were already there and we organised a cup of tea and shared a yummy doughnut, which was very nice and naughty. My Mum said that she had been asked who she was talking to my the little girl with us and she asked if it was my Sister on the phone, where upon my Mum replied, 'No it wasn't ****** it was ****** the happy one! She was far too cheerful to be *****! Which is when she took a step back from her thoughts and realised what she had said and apparently they started to discuss between them how I am always happy, even when things are not going well in my life.
My first reaction was to be happy funnily enough that they both thought I was a happy person lol and they liked being around me for that reason. Then my Mum asked me how I stay so happy and at the time I really could not put my finger on it, but in truth if I had I would not be able to tell her, because I truely believe that it is down to the Escorting I am doing. It kind of kills two birds with one stone.
Let me explain. Before I started Escorting I did have escalating debts. I can't profess to be swimming in money now, but my bills are being paid and I am slowly banking up small amounts that will one day go towards paying off my debts and that is a very very satisfying feeling, especially for someone like myself who is very independent and proud of being self sufficient. Then of course there is that most wonderful act of SEX! I can't begin to tell you how much I enjoy it, how much I love making other people happy and adore being stimulated to the point of no return. I love it, love it, love it! How could anyone not be happy when they are being given the opportinity to get deliciously tactile with such a wonderful array of people? Not just that but the lovely warm hugs, the smiles, the laughter and the euphoria that you can't help but feel when being intimate with someone.
If anyone can let me know a way of explaining this happiness to my Mum without giving the game away I would be eternally grateful lol, as I really don't think she would understand, bless her.
Having said all that, I should be feeling rather glum today, as I have effectively paid for 2 apartments in which to work and not one booking. Thank God for the lovely gentleman I saw yesterday afternoon, as I'm still revelling from that and how they made me feel. I hope I do get a top up tomorrow though, as it's my last full day of being able to take incalls before next week.
Kate x
Thursday, 15 December 2011
Tuesday, 13 December 2011
December 2011
It's been a busy month so far and one with quite a few highlights I'm glad to say.
Manchester
I drove over to Manchester on the 6th and checked in to a lovely spacious room. It wasn't a hotel at the top end of the scale, but it was clean, tidy and had everything I needed for a pleasant stay and a good free carpark.
After a fairly slow start due to my room not being ready, I finally got in, unpacked what I needed, turned the telly on and took a shower. Feeling refreshed I lay on the bed for a while and turned on my laptop. Not long after I get a call from my 6pm date to say all is going as planned. The time seemed to pass so quickly, which I suppose it does when you are feeling content. What seemed just a few moments later I here a knock at the door and my friend for the evening arrives. He is dressed impressively with a long black coat that looked both warm and quality and was wearing a suit underneath.
We chatted for a little while, embraced and got ready to go back outside into the winter chill and discover the Christmas Market. The weather had been raining throughout the day intermitantly and had at points even hailed, so we were very lucky at worst to have had a light drizzle throughout the evening. The market had a great atmosphere and it was lovely to see all the little stalls and crafts that were being sold. I particularly liked some black and white photographs that were being sold by the photographer herself. They were all taken of Manchester from different view points, some of which were panaramic and some close up of shapes within buildings.
Before leaving we moved over to China town and shared a lovely Chinese meal together. I have to say I was not being easy to please, as I am still trying to lose weight and didn't want to gain any if I could help it. Chinese food is not known for it's low calories. Despite my dismissal of what probably seemed like most of the menu we finally plumped for 2 courses to share, had some steamed vegetables and my friend had some fried rice. It was of course absolutely scrumptious!
Once we had enjoyed savouring the tastes of China we strolled back to the hotel and a whole new dimension to the evening began. Needless to say (I think I can talk for him too) we both had a fantastic evening together and it was a wonderful experience to share.
He did ask me if I will go back to Manchester and I think I would be a fool not to. Don't you?
Halifax
I spent 3 days in Halifax. I had if I am honest (which I am) a very quiet time in Halifax, which was disappointing, as like everyone else I do have Christmas presents to buy and I can't start doing that until I have earned enough to pay the bills, so for this reason I was rather disappointed. However, I was very pleasantly surprised by the gentleman who I did see. I would say (without having asked) that they were all between their late 20s and early 30s. Now I'm not saying I don't see young guys at home sometimes, but most of the time I would say they are between mid 40s to mid 50s, so this was a rather nice change of scene if you like and what nade it even better, is how much they seemed to appreciate my oral skills. In fact they made me feel like I was some kind of 'wonder woman' and I loved it!!! I so love to be desired and that is exactly what they were doing and they were young and fit and they were desiring ME!!!!
As you can see I now have the quandry of do I go back (as once again I was asked to) and possibly not do so well financially, but perhaps have an absolutely hum dinger of a time again? There was also the point that a very good friend of mine lives there *Emily of Halifax*. She is a tiny little Pippa doll in size. I must be twice her size, but she has the biggest heart I have ever known and I love being around her. We managed to find time to take lunch together and have a girls night out, which was lovely.
Leeds
I was meant to go to Leeds, but for some reason the client that had pre-booked me did not get in touch and I was feeling tired and didn't want to waste any more money, so I decided to go home instead. However I did not lose the hotel booking and will be using it for a Christmas party on Thursday instead. I've got a 2 hour booking secured before the party, so all's well that ends well.
Worcester
You know they say home is where the heart is. I can't help but wonder if I would have been better off staying at home all along. I had an evening booking upon my return with a lovely guy that I really enjoyed the company of. We clicked quickly and we both had a lot of fun with each other. In between 'the fun' we chatted and he told me that I had managed to do what some of his long term girlfriends had not managed. I had made him cum twice during oral and apparently he has in the past had women cry because they could not get him to cum. Yet there I was, having known him less than an hour, already worked out what made him tic and done it with ease. Not that I'm showing off, but he did come again during penetration too lol. I fell asleep with a very big smile on my face that night.
Dom
Yesterday I met a chap who had tried to see me on a few occasions, but I had never been able to see him. He admitted that he tended towards the dominant side and I don't think I directly told him that I had a hankering towards being submissive. The problem is, I do find it hard to switch off and for me dominance is about intelligence, it's about me wanting that person so much, that I will do anything for them and they need to work on breaking down my barriers and getting me to the point where I would do something that normally I would never do free of my own will. Where I do understand bondage, I'm not sure that I understand it. I mean surely if someone does something of their own free will and not because they are forced to, then you have really cracked it. Perhaps bondage belongs to the wannabe Dom? They don't trust their submissive would do their will without it.
I admit that the more he talked, the more I was getting sucked in and because he was not very tactile I found myself wanting to kiss him and wanting to be penetrated by him, but it was not my place to initiate it, which as I'm sure you will understand is the reverse to my normal situation. I am a natural pleaser and any indication that I was doing this was enough to spur me on and make me try harder.
I'm not sure if he would choose to see me again. I would never presume such a thing, but... I hope he does. I really do.
Manchester
I drove over to Manchester on the 6th and checked in to a lovely spacious room. It wasn't a hotel at the top end of the scale, but it was clean, tidy and had everything I needed for a pleasant stay and a good free carpark.
After a fairly slow start due to my room not being ready, I finally got in, unpacked what I needed, turned the telly on and took a shower. Feeling refreshed I lay on the bed for a while and turned on my laptop. Not long after I get a call from my 6pm date to say all is going as planned. The time seemed to pass so quickly, which I suppose it does when you are feeling content. What seemed just a few moments later I here a knock at the door and my friend for the evening arrives. He is dressed impressively with a long black coat that looked both warm and quality and was wearing a suit underneath.
We chatted for a little while, embraced and got ready to go back outside into the winter chill and discover the Christmas Market. The weather had been raining throughout the day intermitantly and had at points even hailed, so we were very lucky at worst to have had a light drizzle throughout the evening. The market had a great atmosphere and it was lovely to see all the little stalls and crafts that were being sold. I particularly liked some black and white photographs that were being sold by the photographer herself. They were all taken of Manchester from different view points, some of which were panaramic and some close up of shapes within buildings.
Before leaving we moved over to China town and shared a lovely Chinese meal together. I have to say I was not being easy to please, as I am still trying to lose weight and didn't want to gain any if I could help it. Chinese food is not known for it's low calories. Despite my dismissal of what probably seemed like most of the menu we finally plumped for 2 courses to share, had some steamed vegetables and my friend had some fried rice. It was of course absolutely scrumptious!
Once we had enjoyed savouring the tastes of China we strolled back to the hotel and a whole new dimension to the evening began. Needless to say (I think I can talk for him too) we both had a fantastic evening together and it was a wonderful experience to share.
He did ask me if I will go back to Manchester and I think I would be a fool not to. Don't you?
Halifax
I spent 3 days in Halifax. I had if I am honest (which I am) a very quiet time in Halifax, which was disappointing, as like everyone else I do have Christmas presents to buy and I can't start doing that until I have earned enough to pay the bills, so for this reason I was rather disappointed. However, I was very pleasantly surprised by the gentleman who I did see. I would say (without having asked) that they were all between their late 20s and early 30s. Now I'm not saying I don't see young guys at home sometimes, but most of the time I would say they are between mid 40s to mid 50s, so this was a rather nice change of scene if you like and what nade it even better, is how much they seemed to appreciate my oral skills. In fact they made me feel like I was some kind of 'wonder woman' and I loved it!!! I so love to be desired and that is exactly what they were doing and they were young and fit and they were desiring ME!!!!
As you can see I now have the quandry of do I go back (as once again I was asked to) and possibly not do so well financially, but perhaps have an absolutely hum dinger of a time again? There was also the point that a very good friend of mine lives there *Emily of Halifax*. She is a tiny little Pippa doll in size. I must be twice her size, but she has the biggest heart I have ever known and I love being around her. We managed to find time to take lunch together and have a girls night out, which was lovely.
Leeds
I was meant to go to Leeds, but for some reason the client that had pre-booked me did not get in touch and I was feeling tired and didn't want to waste any more money, so I decided to go home instead. However I did not lose the hotel booking and will be using it for a Christmas party on Thursday instead. I've got a 2 hour booking secured before the party, so all's well that ends well.
Worcester
You know they say home is where the heart is. I can't help but wonder if I would have been better off staying at home all along. I had an evening booking upon my return with a lovely guy that I really enjoyed the company of. We clicked quickly and we both had a lot of fun with each other. In between 'the fun' we chatted and he told me that I had managed to do what some of his long term girlfriends had not managed. I had made him cum twice during oral and apparently he has in the past had women cry because they could not get him to cum. Yet there I was, having known him less than an hour, already worked out what made him tic and done it with ease. Not that I'm showing off, but he did come again during penetration too lol. I fell asleep with a very big smile on my face that night.
Dom
Yesterday I met a chap who had tried to see me on a few occasions, but I had never been able to see him. He admitted that he tended towards the dominant side and I don't think I directly told him that I had a hankering towards being submissive. The problem is, I do find it hard to switch off and for me dominance is about intelligence, it's about me wanting that person so much, that I will do anything for them and they need to work on breaking down my barriers and getting me to the point where I would do something that normally I would never do free of my own will. Where I do understand bondage, I'm not sure that I understand it. I mean surely if someone does something of their own free will and not because they are forced to, then you have really cracked it. Perhaps bondage belongs to the wannabe Dom? They don't trust their submissive would do their will without it.
I admit that the more he talked, the more I was getting sucked in and because he was not very tactile I found myself wanting to kiss him and wanting to be penetrated by him, but it was not my place to initiate it, which as I'm sure you will understand is the reverse to my normal situation. I am a natural pleaser and any indication that I was doing this was enough to spur me on and make me try harder.
I'm not sure if he would choose to see me again. I would never presume such a thing, but... I hope he does. I really do.
Saturday, 12 November 2011
Dukan Diet
Since life has been a little turbulant of late I have felt the slow creep of weight increasing on my curves. I'm not obsessed by size, but I know which sizes look well on me and I personally prefer to be a size 14 to 14/16 and I have to admit that I'm far more 16 than I am 14 at the moment, so I am now in the right frame of mind to do something about it. For this reason I recently sent off for literature on the Dukan diet.
The diet is quite strict and it is well explained, so you understand why it asks you to do what it wants and the first 5 days is quite intense and promises a good start to weight loss if you stick to it completely. Believe me I am trying!
Day 1 was yesterday (Friday) As it starts with a protein only 5 day shock tactic, I am literally only allowed meat and eggs (well mostly). I started off the day with eating some king prawns, which were yummny and then I grilled some rump steak and topped it with a poached egg for lunch. The meat was a bit chewy and I got bored of chewing lol. Then at the end of the day (quite late) I got hungry again and decided to cut some steak into strips and cook them on the breville grill with a coating of soy sauce. I was worried it would be a bit too dry so I looked through the cupboards to see what I could use to moisten it a little and decided that some low fat coconut milk and a teaspoon of thai curry paste would go down nicely. It actually tasted gorgeous, but I think I may have gone off the diet already. Oops!
Day 2 started with oat bran pancakes, as the recipe in the book. I managed to make 3 like little american pancakes and actually apart from being a little eggy they tasted really nice and sweet. I shall definitely make them again, as I didn't feel hungry again until 1pm. For lunch I cut some strips of steak again and straight under the breville grill . It was tasty enough and succulent enough with out any sauce, so this time I abstained from trying to make something that was likely laced with carbs. This brings us to dinner time. I decided to make some meatballs from some lean mince meat and added some tomato passanda and a shwartz packet of spices for meatballs. Now it does say you can use spices in abundance in the book, so I didn't bother to look at the ingredients when I made them and I have to say, they tasted amazing!!! I was happily tucking into them, when I decided to have a look at what was in the spices and was dismayed to find there is 17.5g of carbs in the mix of which is likely due to there being breadcrumbs.
Oh well, too late now, as I ate the lot! They were lovely. I will see if it's spoilt losing any weight tomorrow when I have a check. Thankfully I ate it before 8pm though, so time for it to go down a bit yet.
Make note to self... Must try harder!!!
Good news! I just weighed myself on the morning of the 3rd day and I have lost a massive 5lbs! How brilliant is that? I've still got 3 days left to go, so who knows what the total loss will be before I start phase 2 of the diet. Please do not worry. It is a great diet that really does take into account all the nutrients that are needed and a diet that can be maintained long term. There are 4 phases in total, with the first one being very intense. On the sixth day I'll be back on vegetables in abundance, but still no carbs. This phase continues until I have hit my goal weight (whatever that is). The third phase continues with five days for every pound I have lost, so quite a long time at this rate with the last phase pretty much eating normally with one full protein day each week and it suggests no lifts or escalotors. I suppose that means don't take the easy route and walk lol.
Update*
I've just got back from London after a gruelling few days working with one of my other much loved, but very full on jobs. Apart from perhaps late last night/early this morning. I did my very best to keep to the diet religiously. This was somewhat hampered by the fact that the apartment that I had booked, turned out not to be an apartment at all, but move of a box room with a couple of hots and a sink. There wasn't even any washing up liquid let alone practical cooking implements. Resigned to not being able to cook the whole chicken I had taken along with me I resorted to buying cooked meats and nibbling on those while on my own and while with company was as controlled as I could be with a nando's chicken and dry salad (yes how impressive is that!) Well, it was until this morning lol. Having justs settled back at the hotel and being ravenous I succumbed to a lebanese chicken kebab with salad and it came with either chips or rice and I'm afraid I chose the chips. I only ate around 5 of them though and let my friend eat the rest. It also had some unlevened bread with it, that was absolutely amazing!!! Oh and a bit of garlic mayo lol.
I weighed myself when I got back to the apartment around 10.30am and it showed further weight loss and I have now reached the 10lb mark. I am hoping that another 1lb will be off tomorrow, as I will be eating at a more respectable hour and I am getting rather close to shedding my first stone!
I have to admit that I am finding it harder and harder to keep to the protein only days and even if I manage most of the day without any kind of veg, I seem to feel the need to have some for the main meal of the day. I think I'm going to continue working within my comfort zone though and try and keep to one full protein day a week.
Friday 25th November - Another 2lbs off today!!!! that makes 12lbs in total and just 2lbs off losing my first stone. woop, woop! I was starting to wonder if it would ever happen, with no apparent weight lost in 3 days, but it was just a matter of time.
I'm going out for a meal with friends tomorrow. Wish me luck!
26th Dec - Another pound down - now at 12lbs!
This evening I was looking for something to wear, as I was going out with friends and as I thumbed through my wardrobe I spotted a red satin dress that I had bought a few years back that had become too tight to pull the zip up. On impulse I decided to try it on and see how far away I was from actually zipping it to the top and to my sheer amazingment it zipped up effortlessly. From there I decided to try on a dress that I had more recently bought in the sales, that pretty much fitted, but I couldn't do up the last couple of inches of the zip at the back, again it zipped up beautifully and finally I decided to have a go at a dress I bought last year that is lovely but no way could I get the zip up and again it fitted.
This put me in the best frame of mind for going out for a meal, as I was so chuffed at the results, there was no way I was going to be silly and eat the most gorgeous looking steam pudding I've ever seen or partake in the lavish amounts of alcohol on the table. As it was I saved myself a fortune, as the drinks bill alone came to over £140, as they were drinking wine at £18 a bottle.
I was a little naughty with my starter, so I probably have gone back a day, but I'm happy that my main course was not off the diet, so I tried my best to be good. Fingers crossed. I'll take some pics either today or tomorrow and you can see what you think, but please bear in mind that I'm not done yet, this is around the half way mark.
I'll let you know when I hit the first stone and what my next goal is soon and hopefully very soon!
30th November - DONE IT! I am now one stone lighter than when I first started this thread.
I'm starting on my next stone as from tomorrow. Let's see how long that one takes. What do you reckon? I guess I should give it 2 months, as I have promised myself time off for good behaviour from Christmas Eve to New Year's day. I will likely start in ernest with 3 protein only days when I go to Euston, as it will be easier to do away from all the goodies in a likely bulging freezer and fridge.
Kx
The diet is quite strict and it is well explained, so you understand why it asks you to do what it wants and the first 5 days is quite intense and promises a good start to weight loss if you stick to it completely. Believe me I am trying!
Day 1 was yesterday (Friday) As it starts with a protein only 5 day shock tactic, I am literally only allowed meat and eggs (well mostly). I started off the day with eating some king prawns, which were yummny and then I grilled some rump steak and topped it with a poached egg for lunch. The meat was a bit chewy and I got bored of chewing lol. Then at the end of the day (quite late) I got hungry again and decided to cut some steak into strips and cook them on the breville grill with a coating of soy sauce. I was worried it would be a bit too dry so I looked through the cupboards to see what I could use to moisten it a little and decided that some low fat coconut milk and a teaspoon of thai curry paste would go down nicely. It actually tasted gorgeous, but I think I may have gone off the diet already. Oops!
Day 2 started with oat bran pancakes, as the recipe in the book. I managed to make 3 like little american pancakes and actually apart from being a little eggy they tasted really nice and sweet. I shall definitely make them again, as I didn't feel hungry again until 1pm. For lunch I cut some strips of steak again and straight under the breville grill . It was tasty enough and succulent enough with out any sauce, so this time I abstained from trying to make something that was likely laced with carbs. This brings us to dinner time. I decided to make some meatballs from some lean mince meat and added some tomato passanda and a shwartz packet of spices for meatballs. Now it does say you can use spices in abundance in the book, so I didn't bother to look at the ingredients when I made them and I have to say, they tasted amazing!!! I was happily tucking into them, when I decided to have a look at what was in the spices and was dismayed to find there is 17.5g of carbs in the mix of which is likely due to there being breadcrumbs.
Oh well, too late now, as I ate the lot! They were lovely. I will see if it's spoilt losing any weight tomorrow when I have a check. Thankfully I ate it before 8pm though, so time for it to go down a bit yet.
Make note to self... Must try harder!!!
Good news! I just weighed myself on the morning of the 3rd day and I have lost a massive 5lbs! How brilliant is that? I've still got 3 days left to go, so who knows what the total loss will be before I start phase 2 of the diet. Please do not worry. It is a great diet that really does take into account all the nutrients that are needed and a diet that can be maintained long term. There are 4 phases in total, with the first one being very intense. On the sixth day I'll be back on vegetables in abundance, but still no carbs. This phase continues until I have hit my goal weight (whatever that is). The third phase continues with five days for every pound I have lost, so quite a long time at this rate with the last phase pretty much eating normally with one full protein day each week and it suggests no lifts or escalotors. I suppose that means don't take the easy route and walk lol.
Update*
I've just got back from London after a gruelling few days working with one of my other much loved, but very full on jobs. Apart from perhaps late last night/early this morning. I did my very best to keep to the diet religiously. This was somewhat hampered by the fact that the apartment that I had booked, turned out not to be an apartment at all, but move of a box room with a couple of hots and a sink. There wasn't even any washing up liquid let alone practical cooking implements. Resigned to not being able to cook the whole chicken I had taken along with me I resorted to buying cooked meats and nibbling on those while on my own and while with company was as controlled as I could be with a nando's chicken and dry salad (yes how impressive is that!) Well, it was until this morning lol. Having justs settled back at the hotel and being ravenous I succumbed to a lebanese chicken kebab with salad and it came with either chips or rice and I'm afraid I chose the chips. I only ate around 5 of them though and let my friend eat the rest. It also had some unlevened bread with it, that was absolutely amazing!!! Oh and a bit of garlic mayo lol.
I weighed myself when I got back to the apartment around 10.30am and it showed further weight loss and I have now reached the 10lb mark. I am hoping that another 1lb will be off tomorrow, as I will be eating at a more respectable hour and I am getting rather close to shedding my first stone!
I have to admit that I am finding it harder and harder to keep to the protein only days and even if I manage most of the day without any kind of veg, I seem to feel the need to have some for the main meal of the day. I think I'm going to continue working within my comfort zone though and try and keep to one full protein day a week.
Friday 25th November - Another 2lbs off today!!!! that makes 12lbs in total and just 2lbs off losing my first stone. woop, woop! I was starting to wonder if it would ever happen, with no apparent weight lost in 3 days, but it was just a matter of time.
I'm going out for a meal with friends tomorrow. Wish me luck!
26th Dec - Another pound down - now at 12lbs!
This evening I was looking for something to wear, as I was going out with friends and as I thumbed through my wardrobe I spotted a red satin dress that I had bought a few years back that had become too tight to pull the zip up. On impulse I decided to try it on and see how far away I was from actually zipping it to the top and to my sheer amazingment it zipped up effortlessly. From there I decided to try on a dress that I had more recently bought in the sales, that pretty much fitted, but I couldn't do up the last couple of inches of the zip at the back, again it zipped up beautifully and finally I decided to have a go at a dress I bought last year that is lovely but no way could I get the zip up and again it fitted.
This put me in the best frame of mind for going out for a meal, as I was so chuffed at the results, there was no way I was going to be silly and eat the most gorgeous looking steam pudding I've ever seen or partake in the lavish amounts of alcohol on the table. As it was I saved myself a fortune, as the drinks bill alone came to over £140, as they were drinking wine at £18 a bottle.
I was a little naughty with my starter, so I probably have gone back a day, but I'm happy that my main course was not off the diet, so I tried my best to be good. Fingers crossed. I'll take some pics either today or tomorrow and you can see what you think, but please bear in mind that I'm not done yet, this is around the half way mark.
I'll let you know when I hit the first stone and what my next goal is soon and hopefully very soon!
30th November - DONE IT! I am now one stone lighter than when I first started this thread.
I'm starting on my next stone as from tomorrow. Let's see how long that one takes. What do you reckon? I guess I should give it 2 months, as I have promised myself time off for good behaviour from Christmas Eve to New Year's day. I will likely start in ernest with 3 protein only days when I go to Euston, as it will be easier to do away from all the goodies in a likely bulging freezer and fridge.
Friday, 4 November 2011
Finally cracked it!
This has been my 3rd tour to London and if it had not worked out I would not have been touring here again, despite needing to be here around once every 3 months.
Over the time I have been coming over to London I have learnt a lot about the place and the mentality of the people that use Escorts here.
Firsty there is the question of rates. How do you know how much to charge in a place where you seem to be able to get an hour booking from as little as £60 to £200? The difference in rates are vast! It seems if you go lower it won't necessarily get you more clients and if you go higher you are putting yourself in the league with women that are porn stars or have the figures of super models. However, you should never understimate the lure of good feedback, Field Reports and a good profile. A lot of men in London are blighted with bad experiences, as they have been taken in by beautiful women, who have turned out to be beautiful, but don't speak a word of English, or they are so up themselves they won't actually get involved with the booking, but make the guys feel grateful that they are there at all, let alone dare to kiss them.
Bearing all this in mind I kept my rates as they normally are, which is kind of middle of the road for London at £140 for an hour. It certainly hasn't put anyone off this time round and I only had one person ask for a half hour, so has worked well. It's good to know that my rates are pitched about right and where I could possibly increase it by £10 without too much bother, it's simpler to leave things as they are and then at least if anyone back at home is looking at me, they will not get confused by my rates.
So... am I desirable to the guys in London? It would seem yes I am. This is good news, as I was starting to wonder after having 13 no shows during the tour before this one. However... 13 no shows, also means 13 men had a desire to meet me, so what stopped them?
This leads me to the most vital component and the one that I have nearly cracked. The most vital component is all about the location!
So... the first time I stayed here I was... God I can't even remember where I stayed lol, but it wasn't too close to a tube station and it was at a dreaded Travelodge. One that had a key card to use the lift and just to add total confusion, there were 2 travelodges along the same road, so working out which one I was in was not as easy as it seemed. I was certainly more central, as I got a congestion charge. (The trials and tribulations of driving in London!), but as I said, it was a bit off the beaten track for the tube and a good walk from a station, so although I did get a couple of clients (one of which has remained totally faithful to me since I set foot in London), it was not ideal.
The second time I decided to go a bit closer to where I needed to be for a course I was on, which was in Greenwich. However, it was not near the main tourist areas or business areas of the O2, but a little more out in the sticks and although it was situated right next to a DLR station, it was totally out in the sticks and it took me an hour to get to town via public transport, so it was a total nightmare. At the time (until I actually attempted to get into the City) I had no idea how much of a fuss it would be to get to where I was staying and was proper fuming, but I have to put my hands up and accept that I was totally in the wrong place.
This time I made a compromise and split my stay over 2 places. For the first 2 days I stayed in Earl's Court. I was more than happy with the work I got there and for me I felt that the hotel was ideal. It was not too expensive and it had reasonable parking charges. Parking is an important factor for me as I am a bit of a control freak and like to be able to bring everything I want with me. I have to admit the room I have at the moment is a tad small and my bags take up most of the room.
I have been told that I should come back again and much more regularly, which is a great thing to hear, especially at a time when personally I am feeling a little on the large side. I've had a few things to deal with in my family life with the big 'C' rearing its ugly head and of course touring does not lend itself well to healthy eating, so I do really need to settle down a little and try and lose a bit of weight again. I'll certainly put some effort in when I get back home and again after my next tour of London and even the next London tour will be easier, as I have secured an apartment, which means I can cook my own food, rather than rely on ready prepared food that does not need cooking or takeaways.
Anyway, back on to what I was saying. I'm now situated in the Excel area which is much closer to where I need to be. I was very lucky to secure a 2 hour booking on my first evening with a gorgeous chap that I met on Twitter. (Yes he got my Twitter virginity!) and today will be my first evening with nothing pre-booked so it will be interesting to see how it goes. I have to admit I did have 2 enquiries yesterday and neither of them came to anything due to being on the wrong side of the river, so it may not be ideal, but I'm not too worried now, as I was only going to see one person per evening anyway and I have raised the money that I needed to do what I needed to do and add some to paying off bills back home.
It was suggested to me that in the future I should look at working in the Euston or Bloomsbury area, so I will look into that when I get home. The deciding factor will be reliant on car parking and if that really isn't an option, then I will have to train myself to pack better, as at the moment I can just pack whatever I want and it doesn't matter if it doesn't get used. That would be a luxury I could ill afford if reduced to 2 bags and a rucksack.
If anyone has any suggestions they would be most welcome. Perhaps not an idea to add them to this blog, but you could contact me on milf4u2@hotmail.co.uk and I would be most grateful for your input and of course your desire to meet me if of course you do.
Thank you to all those that booked me during this tour so far and in advance for anyone who is considering doing so over the next couple of days. Don't forget I do offer a special 2 hour rate of 2 hours for £200, which saves you £40!
Over the time I have been coming over to London I have learnt a lot about the place and the mentality of the people that use Escorts here.
Firsty there is the question of rates. How do you know how much to charge in a place where you seem to be able to get an hour booking from as little as £60 to £200? The difference in rates are vast! It seems if you go lower it won't necessarily get you more clients and if you go higher you are putting yourself in the league with women that are porn stars or have the figures of super models. However, you should never understimate the lure of good feedback, Field Reports and a good profile. A lot of men in London are blighted with bad experiences, as they have been taken in by beautiful women, who have turned out to be beautiful, but don't speak a word of English, or they are so up themselves they won't actually get involved with the booking, but make the guys feel grateful that they are there at all, let alone dare to kiss them.
Bearing all this in mind I kept my rates as they normally are, which is kind of middle of the road for London at £140 for an hour. It certainly hasn't put anyone off this time round and I only had one person ask for a half hour, so has worked well. It's good to know that my rates are pitched about right and where I could possibly increase it by £10 without too much bother, it's simpler to leave things as they are and then at least if anyone back at home is looking at me, they will not get confused by my rates.
So... am I desirable to the guys in London? It would seem yes I am. This is good news, as I was starting to wonder after having 13 no shows during the tour before this one. However... 13 no shows, also means 13 men had a desire to meet me, so what stopped them?
This leads me to the most vital component and the one that I have nearly cracked. The most vital component is all about the location!
So... the first time I stayed here I was... God I can't even remember where I stayed lol, but it wasn't too close to a tube station and it was at a dreaded Travelodge. One that had a key card to use the lift and just to add total confusion, there were 2 travelodges along the same road, so working out which one I was in was not as easy as it seemed. I was certainly more central, as I got a congestion charge. (The trials and tribulations of driving in London!), but as I said, it was a bit off the beaten track for the tube and a good walk from a station, so although I did get a couple of clients (one of which has remained totally faithful to me since I set foot in London), it was not ideal.
The second time I decided to go a bit closer to where I needed to be for a course I was on, which was in Greenwich. However, it was not near the main tourist areas or business areas of the O2, but a little more out in the sticks and although it was situated right next to a DLR station, it was totally out in the sticks and it took me an hour to get to town via public transport, so it was a total nightmare. At the time (until I actually attempted to get into the City) I had no idea how much of a fuss it would be to get to where I was staying and was proper fuming, but I have to put my hands up and accept that I was totally in the wrong place.
This time I made a compromise and split my stay over 2 places. For the first 2 days I stayed in Earl's Court. I was more than happy with the work I got there and for me I felt that the hotel was ideal. It was not too expensive and it had reasonable parking charges. Parking is an important factor for me as I am a bit of a control freak and like to be able to bring everything I want with me. I have to admit the room I have at the moment is a tad small and my bags take up most of the room.
I have been told that I should come back again and much more regularly, which is a great thing to hear, especially at a time when personally I am feeling a little on the large side. I've had a few things to deal with in my family life with the big 'C' rearing its ugly head and of course touring does not lend itself well to healthy eating, so I do really need to settle down a little and try and lose a bit of weight again. I'll certainly put some effort in when I get back home and again after my next tour of London and even the next London tour will be easier, as I have secured an apartment, which means I can cook my own food, rather than rely on ready prepared food that does not need cooking or takeaways.
Anyway, back on to what I was saying. I'm now situated in the Excel area which is much closer to where I need to be. I was very lucky to secure a 2 hour booking on my first evening with a gorgeous chap that I met on Twitter. (Yes he got my Twitter virginity!) and today will be my first evening with nothing pre-booked so it will be interesting to see how it goes. I have to admit I did have 2 enquiries yesterday and neither of them came to anything due to being on the wrong side of the river, so it may not be ideal, but I'm not too worried now, as I was only going to see one person per evening anyway and I have raised the money that I needed to do what I needed to do and add some to paying off bills back home.
It was suggested to me that in the future I should look at working in the Euston or Bloomsbury area, so I will look into that when I get home. The deciding factor will be reliant on car parking and if that really isn't an option, then I will have to train myself to pack better, as at the moment I can just pack whatever I want and it doesn't matter if it doesn't get used. That would be a luxury I could ill afford if reduced to 2 bags and a rucksack.
If anyone has any suggestions they would be most welcome. Perhaps not an idea to add them to this blog, but you could contact me on milf4u2@hotmail.co.uk and I would be most grateful for your input and of course your desire to meet me if of course you do.
Thank you to all those that booked me during this tour so far and in advance for anyone who is considering doing so over the next couple of days. Don't forget I do offer a special 2 hour rate of 2 hours for £200, which saves you £40!
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