I've moved!!!!
Finally things have all happened and I have somewhere to work from. I can not tell you how hard it has been in the last few months and how delighted I am to finally have a place I can make into a second home and work from.
I absolutely adore Cheltenham and the beautiful weather we are having is making it all the more desirable. I'm in a lovely area, which is literally moments away from the town centre and The brewery, so plenty of places to dine, should anyone fancy a wine, dine and 69 booking. My apartment is perfect and not too dissimilar to my old place (which if you had been there you would know was very nice). It is a bit smaller, but if anything that just makes it more cosy, oh and the shower is loads better than the last one, so no having to muck about trying to get it start lol.
My first fortnight working here is nearly up and I have to say I have had a great time. I've really enjoyed decorating the rooms and making them my own and have been a bit naughty, as I invested £250 in a set of drawers, but they were soooo nice and I had to have some. I also had a lot of fun going round the charity shops and found a few bits and pieces for the living room. I've even bought a little leather box for the bathroom and have put in it a face towel, razor, toothbrush etc a long with some new gorgeous egyptian cotton towels. Literally every thing I can think of to make your stay as enjoyable as possible.
I've also met some lovely new chaps and I wanted to thank them by offering them £20 off their next booking if one hour or longer. So, you know who you are, if we have met in the last couple of weeks, come and get your discount. If we haven't met yet, then come and pay the full price the first time and get your discount the second time. It doesn't matter if you have a half hour booking, or any other type of booking, as long as I have seen you once. With that and the fact that I do offer CIM from the second booking on, what are you waiting for? lol.
There is also an offer for AW users, but please go on my profile to check that out.
I'm off from Thursday afternoon for a while, as I'm spending some time with friends, but I will be back later in the week, before disappearing for a second long weekend to celebrate the Easter bank holiday Monday. Hopefully things will return to normal again after that and I'll be about in Cheltenham from Monday morning, until Thursday afternoon.
For my Worcester friends, of course you are welcome to come and see me still, I'm not far off J10 of the M5, so only 3 junctions further South and I'll be happy to do outcall visits in Worcester when I return home, which will usually be Thursday to Saturday evening.
Take care all and continue enjoying this lovely sunshine while you can. We have no idea how long it will last! lol.
Kate x
English Kate In Belfast a short walk from the Albert Clock. Also touring the Republic of Ireland. Ask if you would like me to tour in your area x Tel: 07564749474 or 086 400 6295
Tuesday, 27 March 2012
Friday, 23 March 2012
Where do I stand on being an Escort?
Hi again! Well, I wrote this a few weeks ago on a forum that I go on Escort-Ireland and it's had a response that I had never imagined, so I thought perhaps I should share it with the rest of you and see what you think? Here goes...
One of the things that I love about this forum is that people bring up lots of controversial topics and are as a rule readily willing to voice their opinion. It does sometimes feel that there is no middle ground though. You either go one way or the other and anyone who sits in the middle, just can't be telling the truth. However, that often seems to be where I sit.
This has caused me to take a look at myself. Am I trying to kid myself? Am I unintentionally just saying what the guys want to hear? Am I doing things wrong? The thing is, I don't know about anyone else, but I didn't get here by following someone elses example. I didn't have someone to show me the ropes and I've never worked in a parlour or been given a job description criteria, so I have literally taken my previoius business knowledge and sexual experiences and combined the two to present myself as Kate.
Having worked for myself before, I have found that what ever you are selling people want a good product, someone who knows their product and a fair price. If you are selling a product that is exclusive and well made, then people are generally happy to pay more and willing to wait for the product if it is being made bespoke for them. I believe that the same goes for Escorting. I try and give an exclusive experience and one that will not just satisfy, but be something to remember. I make an effort to accomodate in pleasant surroundings, set the mood, have drinks at hand and good bathroom facilities (including clean dry towels). I then present myself in a way that I hope will be desirable, seductive and enchanting. This list goes on.
Moving from the business side of things there is also the point of job satisfaction. I get an incredible amount of job satisfaction from Escorting. When you meet someone who is nervous, excited or disjointed in their own life and by the time they leave you they have a huge smile on their face and look totally at ease and happy, then you just can't not feel good about yourself. When you get told that because of you they gone out and met a lady and they are now happy for the first time in years, because you gave them the confidence to date again, you can't help but feel proud. When you're told that they haven't had sex in 7 years and finally they feel like a man again, or you're being hugged and kissed by someone who was desperate just to be close to someone and feel special... how can you not know what you are doing is right?
I am an emotional person and yes sometimes my moods swing and I can go from elated to frustrated, then angry to overwhelmed, but I think this is who I am, this is what maybe sets me apart. I really do give a part of myself to everyone I meet and I do geniunely enjoy myself. I do respond to touch, to kisses, to the chemistry that passes between me and some of the clients. I do feel desire and I do get wet and I do orgasm.
I can't say that it is the same with everyone I meet. To say that would be lying. Sometimes I am instantly attracted, sometimes I am taken over by the skill of the person I am with and some times I find myself liking someone and wanting to make them happy, sometimes it is all 3. Which ever it is, the response is not fake, but led by a willingness to please and be pleased. A desire for enjoyment and fulfillment for both of us.
There will always be times when you don't click with someone, or for one reason or another it is just not happening. Often you can tell by the phone call if there is a big character difference. If the person is abrupt, talks to you like you are a list of services and not a person, appears to have no idea who you are or asks you personal questions. When I come across people like this, I will usually tell them that I don't think I am right for them and they will need to look else where. I also have an age limit that I adhere to. I won't see anyone under the age of 21. I love young men, but younger than that and it feels wrong and I do have to keep within my comfort zone. I also won't see men over the age of 60. Yes there are some attractive older men and I have met some in the past, but I have also encountered men that reminded me of my Grandad and it felt wrong. Again it is my choice and I am happy with the decision that I have made.
It is important that I keep within my comfort zone and I also don't believe in over doing it workwise. The most men I have ever seen in one day while on tour is 5 and if I am honest, I was sooooo tired by the end of the day, I didn't work at all the next day. Since then 4 has been my maximum and that seems to be fine. However, if I'm not in the right frame of mind, or I'm tired, or I see someone for a longer booking, then I won't push myself. I want to give 100% every time and keep the smile on my face too, so for me it is important to work to a pace that suits.
The highlights have got to be the way that many clients treat me. I have been taken out for meals many times and had some wonderful times. I've been treated like a true lady, pampered, massaged, bought my favourite perfume (coco chanel) and introduced to coco mademoiselle, which I now have the perfume and the shower gel. I've been given flowers, chocolates, soda bread, cakes etc and quite frankly treated better than my ex husband ever treated me. It's wonderful to be appreciated, it's the most amazing feeling when someone (who doesn't need to) gives you something to just make you happy.
I'm not denying that there are down sides. There are times when you want to cry (or do in my case) when you get a zillion timewasters, or people trying to make trouble for you, or worse still other girls trying to put you down and break your spirit, but... being able to pay my bills, look after my son and save to make life easier in the future; being able to re-train in new skills and have a decent sex life without all the problems of a relationship and all the friends you make on the way, far ways out the bad side.
Of course it could be made better. I'd love to be able to be honest to my family and friends, but of course I can't. I'd love not to have to worry when touring that I may get kicked out of premises or have someone threaten me. I wish the government would stop trying to make out that all girls are trafficked and doing this against there will. Yes sort trafficking out, no one should go through that, but leave the geniune independent ladies alone and let them work in pairs, it's safer!
Something that might be difficult to understand, but is true. I've been single now for well over a decade. Before I started Escorting I was adamanent that I would not be in another relationship. I did not think that I was compatible with men mentally and where I still liked men, I just didn't think there was anyone out there for me. Thanks to Escorting I have learnt that I was putting way too much emphasis on looks before. What I had not considered is that where someone can start out being attractive and lose their attraction as you discover their true character, the same can be said in reverse. A good person has an inner beauty that sometimes is not apparent on first look, but when you get to know them, they really do shine. I've also found that people who I enjoy the company of and am sexually compatible with are good for me. I want to be with them and look forward to seeing them.
So... maybe, when I retire I will give myself a chance to settle down after all. I'm not ready yet, but I'm getting there and that is thanks to you!
ps I know there are a couple of spelling errors in here and when I seek them out I will correct them, but until then, please ignore them and accept that I was engrossed in what I was saying, which led to the mistakes. I am only human after all x
One of the things that I love about this forum is that people bring up lots of controversial topics and are as a rule readily willing to voice their opinion. It does sometimes feel that there is no middle ground though. You either go one way or the other and anyone who sits in the middle, just can't be telling the truth. However, that often seems to be where I sit.
One of the things that I love about this forum is that people bring up lots of controversial topics and are as a rule readily willing to voice their opinion. It does sometimes feel that there is no middle ground though. You either go one way or the other and anyone who sits in the middle, just can't be telling the truth. However, that often seems to be where I sit.This has caused me to take a look at myself. Am I trying to kid myself? Am I unintentionally just saying what the guys want to hear? Am I doing things wrong? The thing is, I don't know about anyone else, but I didn't get here by following someone elses example. I didn't have someone to show me the ropes and I've never worked in a parlour or been given a job description criteria, so I have literally taken my previoius business knowledge and sexual experiences and combined the two to present myself as Kate.
Having worked for myself before, I have found that what ever you are selling people want a good product, someone who knows their product and a fair price. If you are selling a product that is exclusive and well made, then people are generally happy to pay more and willing to wait for the product if it is being made bespoke for them. I believe that the same goes for Escorting. I try and give an exclusive experience and one that will not just satisfy, but be something to remember. I make an effort to accomodate in pleasant surroundings, set the mood, have drinks at hand and good bathroom facilities (including clean dry towels). I then present myself in a way that I hope will be desirable, seductive and enchanting. This list goes on.
Moving from the business side of things there is also the point of job satisfaction. I get an incredible amount of job satisfaction from Escorting. When you meet someone who is nervous, excited or disjointed in their own life and by the time they leave you they have a huge smile on their face and look totally at ease and happy, then you just can't not feel good about yourself. When you get told that because of you they gone out and met a lady and they are now happy for the first time in years, because you gave them the confidence to date again, you can't help but feel proud. When you're told that they haven't had sex in 7 years and finally they feel like a man again, or you're being hugged and kissed by someone who was desperate just to be close to someone and feel special... how can you not know what you are doing is right?
I am an emotional person and yes sometimes my moods swing and I can go from elated to frustrated, then angry to overwhelmed, but I think this is who I am, this is what maybe sets me apart. I really do give a part of myself to everyone I meet and I do geniunely enjoy myself. I do respond to touch, to kisses, to the chemistry that passes between me and some of the clients. I do feel desire and I do get wet and I do orgasm.
I can't say that it is the same with everyone I meet. To say that would be lying. Sometimes I am instantly attracted, sometimes I am taken over by the skill of the person I am with and some times I find myself liking someone and wanting to make them happy, sometimes it is all 3. Which ever it is, the response is not fake, but led by a willingness to please and be pleased. A desire for enjoyment and fulfillment for both of us.
There will always be times when you don't click with someone, or for one reason or another it is just not happening. Often you can tell by the phone call if there is a big character difference. If the person is abrupt, talks to you like you are a list of services and not a person, appears to have no idea who you are or asks you personal questions. When I come across people like this, I will usually tell them that I don't think I am right for them and they will need to look else where. I also have an age limit that I adhere to. I won't see anyone under the age of 21. I love young men, but younger than that and it feels wrong and I do have to keep within my comfort zone. I also won't see men over the age of 60. Yes there are some attractive older men and I have met some in the past, but I have also encountered men that reminded me of my Grandad and it felt wrong. Again it is my choice and I am happy with the decision that I have made.
It is important that I keep within my comfort zone and I also don't believe in over doing it workwise. The most men I have ever seen in one day while on tour is 5 and if I am honest, I was sooooo tired by the end of the day, I didn't work at all the next day. Since then 4 has been my maximum and that seems to be fine. However, if I'm not in the right frame of mind, or I'm tired, or I see someone for a longer booking, then I won't push myself. I want to give 100% every time and keep the smile on my face too, so for me it is important to work to a pace that suits.
The highlights have got to be the way that many clients treat me. I have been taken out for meals many times and had some wonderful times. I've been treated like a true lady, pampered, massaged, bought my favourite perfume (coco chanel) and introduced to coco mademoiselle, which I now have the perfume and the shower gel. I've been given flowers, chocolates, soda bread, cakes etc and quite frankly treated better than my ex husband ever treated me. It's wonderful to be appreciated, it's the most amazing feeling when someone (who doesn't need to) gives you something to just make you happy.
I'm not denying that there are down sides. There are times when you want to cry (or do in my case) when you get a zillion timewasters, or people trying to make trouble for you, or worse still other girls trying to put you down and break your spirit, but... being able to pay my bills, look after my son and save to make life easier in the future; being able to re-train in new skills and have a decent sex life without all the problems of a relationship and all the friends you make on the way, far ways out the bad side.
Of course it could be made better. I'd love to be able to be honest to my family and friends, but of course I can't. I'd love not to have to worry when touring that I may get kicked out of premises or have someone threaten me. I wish the government would stop trying to make out that all girls are trafficked and doing this against there will. Yes sort trafficking out, no one should go through that, but leave the geniune independent ladies alone and let them work in pairs, it's safer!
Something that might be difficult to understand, but is true. I've been single now for well over a decade. Before I started Escorting I was adamanent that I would not be in another relationship. I did not think that I was compatible with men mentally and where I still liked men, I just didn't think there was anyone out there for me. Thanks to Escorting I have learnt that I was putting way too much emphasis on looks before. What I had not considered is that where someone can start out being attractive and lose their attraction as you discover their true character, the same can be said in reverse. A good person has an inner beauty that sometimes is not apparent on first look, but when you get to know them, they really do shine. I've also found that people who I enjoy the company of and am sexually compatible with are good for me. I want to be with them and look forward to seeing them.
So... maybe, when I retire I will give myself a chance to settle down after all. I'm not ready yet, but I'm getting there and that is thanks to you!
ps I know there are a couple of spelling errors in here and when I seek them out I will correct them, but until then, please ignore them and accept that I was engrossed in what I was saying, which led to the mistakes. I am only human after all x
Sunday, 26 February 2012
When time stood still
Well, I got back from Dublin a whole week ago now and life has been very sedate since. I've been fulfilling my role as a Mother and sorting out a few things that needed doing, but really there is a forboding sense of being in 'limbo' about me at the moment, since I no longer have a place to take in calls from.
Sadly plans to be up and running in Cheltenham in March have fallen through. I'm not entirely sure why, but I hope it is a glitch and not something that will follow me to my next choice of location. I will be resuming my search this week and fingers crossed will be able to put the matter straight, as I'm finding it awfully frustrating at the moment when the phone rings and I have to apologies for not being available for in calls.
For the moment I am trying to make myself available for outcalls, but I hope you can appreciate being a Mum, I can't just disappear at a moments notice. Things need arranging and excuses need making and I also need to shower, put my make-up on and dress appropriately, which of course is not my every day look for around the home and all takes time.
If you would like to book for for an outcall I would love to come to you, but please, please, give me as much notice as you possibly can. I hope that you would not be disappointed, after all this lack of opportunity is doing nothing for my sex life lol and I'm missing it probably far more than my regs who are presently unable to see me.
Due to the fact that I am not presently able to offer in calls unless on tour, I will not be charging any fuel costs within Worcestershire, Gloucestershire or birmingham. However the length of the booking will be affected. I will take half hour bookings only within Worcester itself. One hour bookings within a 20 mile radius and 2 hour plus every where else.
I'm also happy to continue offering, wine, dine & 69 bookings with one hour private time, plus social time at £250 and 2 hours private time, plus social at £350. This is a set rate for any of the above locations, with your accomodation, be it a hotel or your residents.
I will only take overnight bookings from gentleman I have met before.
I will of course let you know if and when the situation changes, but I think next time I will wait until I have signed on the dotted line.
Take care all and I hope to see you soon.
Kate x
Sadly plans to be up and running in Cheltenham in March have fallen through. I'm not entirely sure why, but I hope it is a glitch and not something that will follow me to my next choice of location. I will be resuming my search this week and fingers crossed will be able to put the matter straight, as I'm finding it awfully frustrating at the moment when the phone rings and I have to apologies for not being available for in calls.
For the moment I am trying to make myself available for outcalls, but I hope you can appreciate being a Mum, I can't just disappear at a moments notice. Things need arranging and excuses need making and I also need to shower, put my make-up on and dress appropriately, which of course is not my every day look for around the home and all takes time.
If you would like to book for for an outcall I would love to come to you, but please, please, give me as much notice as you possibly can. I hope that you would not be disappointed, after all this lack of opportunity is doing nothing for my sex life lol and I'm missing it probably far more than my regs who are presently unable to see me.
Due to the fact that I am not presently able to offer in calls unless on tour, I will not be charging any fuel costs within Worcestershire, Gloucestershire or birmingham. However the length of the booking will be affected. I will take half hour bookings only within Worcester itself. One hour bookings within a 20 mile radius and 2 hour plus every where else.
I'm also happy to continue offering, wine, dine & 69 bookings with one hour private time, plus social time at £250 and 2 hours private time, plus social at £350. This is a set rate for any of the above locations, with your accomodation, be it a hotel or your residents.
I will only take overnight bookings from gentleman I have met before.
I will of course let you know if and when the situation changes, but I think next time I will wait until I have signed on the dotted line.
Take care all and I hope to see you soon.
Kate x
Tuesday, 31 January 2012
New starts
2011 ended with a bit of unheavel for me. After getting my first apartment in April, I was very wary of the neighbours and never wanted to push it, so in the main I worked Monday to Friday during office hours and rarely took on more than 3 clients in a day. I continuted touring as well, which meant that I was often not using the apartment at all, but still soon after renewing the contract for a 2nd time for a further 6 months the trouble began.
The apartments had a committee and they had sent a letter direct to the letting agency complaining that my curtains were always drawn and that they were suspicious of the amount of visitors I was having. I directly sent a letter of explanation. My landlord already knew that I was working from the apartment, as I had told them and they were fine about it. I also explained that my Mum had been having problems and that I had been staying with her, hence the curtains shut. Thankfully the agency and my landlord were happy with this, but not the committee, who then continued to send me threatening letters.
The message threatened me with the Act of 1956, section 33. For those of you that don't know it, it is concerned with brothels and there to protect people from being trafficed and abused and has absolutely nothing to do with independent Escorts. This alone had no hold on me, but... they said that they would contact the police if I continued to work from the apartment and that they had ways of finding out who my visitors were and would get the police onto them as well. I assumed by this they meant that they would take note of their vehicle registration numbers. So despite the fact that I was doing nothing wrong I immediately decided to stop using my apartment.
This meant that I was still having to pay the rent and in order to pay the rent I needed to continue touring and using other premises and make more excuses for not being home. This has been stressful as I do also run a business and have a dependent at home, so things have had to suffer. I've obviously not been able to save any money over the last 3 months or so and have had to dip into my savings to keep afloat, which is soul destroying, as I was starting to do really well and was more than half way towards paying off my first big loan.
Thankfully things have really started to turn around though and the pressure is nearly off. I'm going to be moving from Worcester and taking myself down the M5 slightly and working 10 minutes off the M5, J10 instead. The place is very different to the space I am used to but, it's perfect for what I need and I am really looking forward to it. I am hoping to be there in time for the Gold Cup, which is great as I have wanted to work there during the gold cup for the last 2 years, but the prices of accomodation are way too high at that time.
Hopefully some of my regulars will follow me there, although I understand that some of them will not be able to travel that far and would like to thank them for all the lovely times we have had together. I also look forward to meeting some new people and getting some new regulars. I believe I have already met one, who was very sweet and helped me with which area to look at within Cheltenham. I met him for the first time yesterday, as I'm currently working in cheltenham for the week and he was lovely.
So... fingers crossed for 2012 and new beginnings. I believe I have learnt a lot from this experience and it's so good to see light at the end of the tunnel.
Kate x
The apartments had a committee and they had sent a letter direct to the letting agency complaining that my curtains were always drawn and that they were suspicious of the amount of visitors I was having. I directly sent a letter of explanation. My landlord already knew that I was working from the apartment, as I had told them and they were fine about it. I also explained that my Mum had been having problems and that I had been staying with her, hence the curtains shut. Thankfully the agency and my landlord were happy with this, but not the committee, who then continued to send me threatening letters.
The message threatened me with the Act of 1956, section 33. For those of you that don't know it, it is concerned with brothels and there to protect people from being trafficed and abused and has absolutely nothing to do with independent Escorts. This alone had no hold on me, but... they said that they would contact the police if I continued to work from the apartment and that they had ways of finding out who my visitors were and would get the police onto them as well. I assumed by this they meant that they would take note of their vehicle registration numbers. So despite the fact that I was doing nothing wrong I immediately decided to stop using my apartment.
This meant that I was still having to pay the rent and in order to pay the rent I needed to continue touring and using other premises and make more excuses for not being home. This has been stressful as I do also run a business and have a dependent at home, so things have had to suffer. I've obviously not been able to save any money over the last 3 months or so and have had to dip into my savings to keep afloat, which is soul destroying, as I was starting to do really well and was more than half way towards paying off my first big loan.
Thankfully things have really started to turn around though and the pressure is nearly off. I'm going to be moving from Worcester and taking myself down the M5 slightly and working 10 minutes off the M5, J10 instead. The place is very different to the space I am used to but, it's perfect for what I need and I am really looking forward to it. I am hoping to be there in time for the Gold Cup, which is great as I have wanted to work there during the gold cup for the last 2 years, but the prices of accomodation are way too high at that time.
Hopefully some of my regulars will follow me there, although I understand that some of them will not be able to travel that far and would like to thank them for all the lovely times we have had together. I also look forward to meeting some new people and getting some new regulars. I believe I have already met one, who was very sweet and helped me with which area to look at within Cheltenham. I met him for the first time yesterday, as I'm currently working in cheltenham for the week and he was lovely.
So... fingers crossed for 2012 and new beginnings. I believe I have learnt a lot from this experience and it's so good to see light at the end of the tunnel.
Kate x
Tuesday, 10 January 2012
The secret to the smile!
This weekend while parking up in town I noticed my Mum's car was already parked up in the carpark. I duly rang her to find out where she was and what she was doing and we arranged to meet up for tea and cake in one of the local stores. It transpired that she had my sister's step daughter with her and I happen to know that she is mad on Hello Kitty, so when I saw some Hello Kitty things on sale in WHSmith I felt compelled to buy her a little notepad and pen, as I thought it would keep her happy while we chatted.
When I got to the store they were already there and we organised a cup of tea and shared a yummy doughnut, which was very nice and naughty. My Mum said that she had been asked who she was talking to my the little girl with us and she asked if it was my Sister on the phone, where upon my Mum replied, 'No it wasn't ****** it was ****** the happy one! She was far too cheerful to be *****! Which is when she took a step back from her thoughts and realised what she had said and apparently they started to discuss between them how I am always happy, even when things are not going well in my life.
My first reaction was to be happy funnily enough that they both thought I was a happy person lol and they liked being around me for that reason. Then my Mum asked me how I stay so happy and at the time I really could not put my finger on it, but in truth if I had I would not be able to tell her, because I truely believe that it is down to the Escorting I am doing. It kind of kills two birds with one stone.
Let me explain. Before I started Escorting I did have escalating debts. I can't profess to be swimming in money now, but my bills are being paid and I am slowly banking up small amounts that will one day go towards paying off my debts and that is a very very satisfying feeling, especially for someone like myself who is very independent and proud of being self sufficient. Then of course there is that most wonderful act of SEX! I can't begin to tell you how much I enjoy it, how much I love making other people happy and adore being stimulated to the point of no return. I love it, love it, love it! How could anyone not be happy when they are being given the opportinity to get deliciously tactile with such a wonderful array of people? Not just that but the lovely warm hugs, the smiles, the laughter and the euphoria that you can't help but feel when being intimate with someone.
If anyone can let me know a way of explaining this happiness to my Mum without giving the game away I would be eternally grateful lol, as I really don't think she would understand, bless her.
Having said all that, I should be feeling rather glum today, as I have effectively paid for 2 apartments in which to work and not one booking. Thank God for the lovely gentleman I saw yesterday afternoon, as I'm still revelling from that and how they made me feel. I hope I do get a top up tomorrow though, as it's my last full day of being able to take incalls before next week.
Kate x
When I got to the store they were already there and we organised a cup of tea and shared a yummy doughnut, which was very nice and naughty. My Mum said that she had been asked who she was talking to my the little girl with us and she asked if it was my Sister on the phone, where upon my Mum replied, 'No it wasn't ****** it was ****** the happy one! She was far too cheerful to be *****! Which is when she took a step back from her thoughts and realised what she had said and apparently they started to discuss between them how I am always happy, even when things are not going well in my life.
My first reaction was to be happy funnily enough that they both thought I was a happy person lol and they liked being around me for that reason. Then my Mum asked me how I stay so happy and at the time I really could not put my finger on it, but in truth if I had I would not be able to tell her, because I truely believe that it is down to the Escorting I am doing. It kind of kills two birds with one stone.
Let me explain. Before I started Escorting I did have escalating debts. I can't profess to be swimming in money now, but my bills are being paid and I am slowly banking up small amounts that will one day go towards paying off my debts and that is a very very satisfying feeling, especially for someone like myself who is very independent and proud of being self sufficient. Then of course there is that most wonderful act of SEX! I can't begin to tell you how much I enjoy it, how much I love making other people happy and adore being stimulated to the point of no return. I love it, love it, love it! How could anyone not be happy when they are being given the opportinity to get deliciously tactile with such a wonderful array of people? Not just that but the lovely warm hugs, the smiles, the laughter and the euphoria that you can't help but feel when being intimate with someone.
If anyone can let me know a way of explaining this happiness to my Mum without giving the game away I would be eternally grateful lol, as I really don't think she would understand, bless her.
Having said all that, I should be feeling rather glum today, as I have effectively paid for 2 apartments in which to work and not one booking. Thank God for the lovely gentleman I saw yesterday afternoon, as I'm still revelling from that and how they made me feel. I hope I do get a top up tomorrow though, as it's my last full day of being able to take incalls before next week.
Kate x
Thursday, 15 December 2011
Tuesday, 13 December 2011
December 2011
It's been a busy month so far and one with quite a few highlights I'm glad to say.
Manchester
I drove over to Manchester on the 6th and checked in to a lovely spacious room. It wasn't a hotel at the top end of the scale, but it was clean, tidy and had everything I needed for a pleasant stay and a good free carpark.
After a fairly slow start due to my room not being ready, I finally got in, unpacked what I needed, turned the telly on and took a shower. Feeling refreshed I lay on the bed for a while and turned on my laptop. Not long after I get a call from my 6pm date to say all is going as planned. The time seemed to pass so quickly, which I suppose it does when you are feeling content. What seemed just a few moments later I here a knock at the door and my friend for the evening arrives. He is dressed impressively with a long black coat that looked both warm and quality and was wearing a suit underneath.
We chatted for a little while, embraced and got ready to go back outside into the winter chill and discover the Christmas Market. The weather had been raining throughout the day intermitantly and had at points even hailed, so we were very lucky at worst to have had a light drizzle throughout the evening. The market had a great atmosphere and it was lovely to see all the little stalls and crafts that were being sold. I particularly liked some black and white photographs that were being sold by the photographer herself. They were all taken of Manchester from different view points, some of which were panaramic and some close up of shapes within buildings.
Before leaving we moved over to China town and shared a lovely Chinese meal together. I have to say I was not being easy to please, as I am still trying to lose weight and didn't want to gain any if I could help it. Chinese food is not known for it's low calories. Despite my dismissal of what probably seemed like most of the menu we finally plumped for 2 courses to share, had some steamed vegetables and my friend had some fried rice. It was of course absolutely scrumptious!
Once we had enjoyed savouring the tastes of China we strolled back to the hotel and a whole new dimension to the evening began. Needless to say (I think I can talk for him too) we both had a fantastic evening together and it was a wonderful experience to share.
He did ask me if I will go back to Manchester and I think I would be a fool not to. Don't you?
Halifax
I spent 3 days in Halifax. I had if I am honest (which I am) a very quiet time in Halifax, which was disappointing, as like everyone else I do have Christmas presents to buy and I can't start doing that until I have earned enough to pay the bills, so for this reason I was rather disappointed. However, I was very pleasantly surprised by the gentleman who I did see. I would say (without having asked) that they were all between their late 20s and early 30s. Now I'm not saying I don't see young guys at home sometimes, but most of the time I would say they are between mid 40s to mid 50s, so this was a rather nice change of scene if you like and what nade it even better, is how much they seemed to appreciate my oral skills. In fact they made me feel like I was some kind of 'wonder woman' and I loved it!!! I so love to be desired and that is exactly what they were doing and they were young and fit and they were desiring ME!!!!
As you can see I now have the quandry of do I go back (as once again I was asked to) and possibly not do so well financially, but perhaps have an absolutely hum dinger of a time again? There was also the point that a very good friend of mine lives there *Emily of Halifax*. She is a tiny little Pippa doll in size. I must be twice her size, but she has the biggest heart I have ever known and I love being around her. We managed to find time to take lunch together and have a girls night out, which was lovely.
Leeds
I was meant to go to Leeds, but for some reason the client that had pre-booked me did not get in touch and I was feeling tired and didn't want to waste any more money, so I decided to go home instead. However I did not lose the hotel booking and will be using it for a Christmas party on Thursday instead. I've got a 2 hour booking secured before the party, so all's well that ends well.
Worcester
You know they say home is where the heart is. I can't help but wonder if I would have been better off staying at home all along. I had an evening booking upon my return with a lovely guy that I really enjoyed the company of. We clicked quickly and we both had a lot of fun with each other. In between 'the fun' we chatted and he told me that I had managed to do what some of his long term girlfriends had not managed. I had made him cum twice during oral and apparently he has in the past had women cry because they could not get him to cum. Yet there I was, having known him less than an hour, already worked out what made him tic and done it with ease. Not that I'm showing off, but he did come again during penetration too lol. I fell asleep with a very big smile on my face that night.
Dom
Yesterday I met a chap who had tried to see me on a few occasions, but I had never been able to see him. He admitted that he tended towards the dominant side and I don't think I directly told him that I had a hankering towards being submissive. The problem is, I do find it hard to switch off and for me dominance is about intelligence, it's about me wanting that person so much, that I will do anything for them and they need to work on breaking down my barriers and getting me to the point where I would do something that normally I would never do free of my own will. Where I do understand bondage, I'm not sure that I understand it. I mean surely if someone does something of their own free will and not because they are forced to, then you have really cracked it. Perhaps bondage belongs to the wannabe Dom? They don't trust their submissive would do their will without it.
I admit that the more he talked, the more I was getting sucked in and because he was not very tactile I found myself wanting to kiss him and wanting to be penetrated by him, but it was not my place to initiate it, which as I'm sure you will understand is the reverse to my normal situation. I am a natural pleaser and any indication that I was doing this was enough to spur me on and make me try harder.
I'm not sure if he would choose to see me again. I would never presume such a thing, but... I hope he does. I really do.
Manchester
I drove over to Manchester on the 6th and checked in to a lovely spacious room. It wasn't a hotel at the top end of the scale, but it was clean, tidy and had everything I needed for a pleasant stay and a good free carpark.
After a fairly slow start due to my room not being ready, I finally got in, unpacked what I needed, turned the telly on and took a shower. Feeling refreshed I lay on the bed for a while and turned on my laptop. Not long after I get a call from my 6pm date to say all is going as planned. The time seemed to pass so quickly, which I suppose it does when you are feeling content. What seemed just a few moments later I here a knock at the door and my friend for the evening arrives. He is dressed impressively with a long black coat that looked both warm and quality and was wearing a suit underneath.
We chatted for a little while, embraced and got ready to go back outside into the winter chill and discover the Christmas Market. The weather had been raining throughout the day intermitantly and had at points even hailed, so we were very lucky at worst to have had a light drizzle throughout the evening. The market had a great atmosphere and it was lovely to see all the little stalls and crafts that were being sold. I particularly liked some black and white photographs that were being sold by the photographer herself. They were all taken of Manchester from different view points, some of which were panaramic and some close up of shapes within buildings.
Before leaving we moved over to China town and shared a lovely Chinese meal together. I have to say I was not being easy to please, as I am still trying to lose weight and didn't want to gain any if I could help it. Chinese food is not known for it's low calories. Despite my dismissal of what probably seemed like most of the menu we finally plumped for 2 courses to share, had some steamed vegetables and my friend had some fried rice. It was of course absolutely scrumptious!
Once we had enjoyed savouring the tastes of China we strolled back to the hotel and a whole new dimension to the evening began. Needless to say (I think I can talk for him too) we both had a fantastic evening together and it was a wonderful experience to share.
He did ask me if I will go back to Manchester and I think I would be a fool not to. Don't you?
Halifax
I spent 3 days in Halifax. I had if I am honest (which I am) a very quiet time in Halifax, which was disappointing, as like everyone else I do have Christmas presents to buy and I can't start doing that until I have earned enough to pay the bills, so for this reason I was rather disappointed. However, I was very pleasantly surprised by the gentleman who I did see. I would say (without having asked) that they were all between their late 20s and early 30s. Now I'm not saying I don't see young guys at home sometimes, but most of the time I would say they are between mid 40s to mid 50s, so this was a rather nice change of scene if you like and what nade it even better, is how much they seemed to appreciate my oral skills. In fact they made me feel like I was some kind of 'wonder woman' and I loved it!!! I so love to be desired and that is exactly what they were doing and they were young and fit and they were desiring ME!!!!
As you can see I now have the quandry of do I go back (as once again I was asked to) and possibly not do so well financially, but perhaps have an absolutely hum dinger of a time again? There was also the point that a very good friend of mine lives there *Emily of Halifax*. She is a tiny little Pippa doll in size. I must be twice her size, but she has the biggest heart I have ever known and I love being around her. We managed to find time to take lunch together and have a girls night out, which was lovely.
Leeds
I was meant to go to Leeds, but for some reason the client that had pre-booked me did not get in touch and I was feeling tired and didn't want to waste any more money, so I decided to go home instead. However I did not lose the hotel booking and will be using it for a Christmas party on Thursday instead. I've got a 2 hour booking secured before the party, so all's well that ends well.
Worcester
You know they say home is where the heart is. I can't help but wonder if I would have been better off staying at home all along. I had an evening booking upon my return with a lovely guy that I really enjoyed the company of. We clicked quickly and we both had a lot of fun with each other. In between 'the fun' we chatted and he told me that I had managed to do what some of his long term girlfriends had not managed. I had made him cum twice during oral and apparently he has in the past had women cry because they could not get him to cum. Yet there I was, having known him less than an hour, already worked out what made him tic and done it with ease. Not that I'm showing off, but he did come again during penetration too lol. I fell asleep with a very big smile on my face that night.
Dom
Yesterday I met a chap who had tried to see me on a few occasions, but I had never been able to see him. He admitted that he tended towards the dominant side and I don't think I directly told him that I had a hankering towards being submissive. The problem is, I do find it hard to switch off and for me dominance is about intelligence, it's about me wanting that person so much, that I will do anything for them and they need to work on breaking down my barriers and getting me to the point where I would do something that normally I would never do free of my own will. Where I do understand bondage, I'm not sure that I understand it. I mean surely if someone does something of their own free will and not because they are forced to, then you have really cracked it. Perhaps bondage belongs to the wannabe Dom? They don't trust their submissive would do their will without it.
I admit that the more he talked, the more I was getting sucked in and because he was not very tactile I found myself wanting to kiss him and wanting to be penetrated by him, but it was not my place to initiate it, which as I'm sure you will understand is the reverse to my normal situation. I am a natural pleaser and any indication that I was doing this was enough to spur me on and make me try harder.
I'm not sure if he would choose to see me again. I would never presume such a thing, but... I hope he does. I really do.
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