Back to it with a vengence!

Who's been a busy girl?  That would be me!!!! *cheesy grin*

So... what have I been doing?  Quite a bit actually.  I've been back up North and visited my Northern boys in Halifax, had a pitt stop in Birmingham, which ironically brought me a chap I had met before, which wasn't something I was expecting, as I have never worked in Birmingham.

I've had a guest over for the weekend from London.  I have met him several times before, so was delighted to rent him my apartment for a couple of nights.  I showed him round on the Friday and we sorted out his supplies for the night, then we had a little fun before I left him to a night in front of the box watching dvds.  the next day I arrived again in the evening and we went out to dinner together after working up an appetite.  It was lovely to have the company and he enjoyed having a look around the local areas during the day.  He was rather sweet and bought me a dvd and left a full bottle of vodka behind, which reminds me, I wouldn't mind a glass of that right now :)

What else?  Ah yes... I decided it was time to reverse the ruins of my diet after Christmas and yes Easter wasn't much help either lol.  I've been dieting again now for around 5 weeks, but unlike last time which was very full on with the Dukan diet I have some how settled with a Marks & Spencers diet.  What's that I hear you cry?  Well, they have lots of ready meals and they all have the dietry information on the packets, so I only eat the ones that are 400 or less calories.  I'll eat 2 of these a day and make myself breakfast dukan style of scrambled eggs and salmon or yoghurt and fruit.  On top of that I might have a piece of fruit or a cereal bar.  What ever combination I have it is usually around 1200 and 1500 calories per day with  no restrictions on the weekends.

with this I'm averaging at around 1lb loss every two to three days and in total to date I have lost 10 lbs.  I had not put all the weight  back on from last time and kept back 2 lbs, so in that respect I ony have 3 lbs left to lose to be back to my pre-Christmas slimmer state.  Great news!

This means with the help of Marks & Spencers I'm well back on the road to a slimmer and happier me.  I'm already getting back into all my 14's again and actually wore a blouse I had bought before and couldn't get it on.  I'm pleased that I have put it right, as I never intended to put the weight back on, but as effective as the Dukan diet was, it was not sustainable, where as this is very much so, as I really enjoy the meals and they have flavour!!!!  They have other meals that are a little higher in calories (upto 600) which I think I will eat on treat days or when the diet is over, because they are a little richer and give me the flavour that I really crave.

So... who knows where I will by the Summer time?  I'm certainly not looking at going crazy, but having bought a size 12 cardigan recently that actually fitted over my arms, I would love to fit into it comfortably, so I think perhaps maybe a size 12/14 would be nice?  I doubt very much I would lose my curves, so please do not fear, they will still be here!

I finally got internet connection up and running again last week, to my relief.  It only took them 2 months to sort it out, so I shouldn't grumble.  This does mean that I can do some camming again now, although I have to warn you that I really do have to be in the right mood to do it, so until I get back into the swing of things, it might be a bit hit and miss.  I'm not really sure where the best place to do it is.  The lounge is very cosy and I have a telly, but it's not really condusive to sitting provocatively lol.  Where as the bedroom has a nice table that is higher than a coffee table and of course the bed is also in there, should I wish to get more comfortable, but nothing to entertain me between moments of interest online.  I suppose I shall have to decide which is more important, watching the telly or the camming.

Future plans.  I'm staying here for the rest of the month.  I really needed to spend some time in Cheltenham, so it's been good to spend a bit more time here, especially as I am starting to accumulate some regulars now.  It's no good if they never have the opportunity to see me, but I will be off to London again from the 5th June and working for 3 days.  Then I'll be off again on the 19th June and going back up to Leeds.  It is kind of business and pleasure, as I will be visiting some girlfriends while I'm over there in the evenings and working throughout the day.  I am really looking forward to it and have 3 advance bookings, 2 of which I have met and enjoyed seeing before and one newbie.  I love it when I get to see people again, especially when you know that you have clicked and really did click with both, so a great time ahead.

No real plans for the most of July, but I will be toddling off to Ireland on the 25th and staying over there until the 18th August, then I'm going away with family for a long weekend and that is most of August sorted.  Hopefully Cheltenham will be ready for my return come September and we can all get back to normal with the new school term.  I think I will hang up my touring stockings then, although knowing me it won't happen lol.

That's it for now.  There are more new pics on my website, entitled 'Leather' after a wonderful client in Ireland bought me a leather coat.  He will be reaping the benefit of this when I see him in the Summer and seduce him in it lol, but in the mean time I hope you enjoy how I look in it.

Kate xx

My New Camera!

Recently a friend very kindly offered me their old camera.  I say old, but when it arrived in the post, most of the bits were untouched and still in their wrappers.  I don't fully understand how to use it yet, but it has some great features on it and the one that I got using straight away was the 10 second timer with the option for x 3.  This means I can take 3 pictures, one after the other, without having to keep running back and forth between poses.  It still takes some getting used to, as I have to think about moving, otherwise you get 3 identical goofy pictures lol, but after a while you kind of get into the idea of a slight tilt of the body, arm change or smile and you can get a whole new picture and don't look rushed or in pain, as I often did when having to try and get into a position and strike a smile in ten seconds flat.

Generally the success rate of taking a decent picture has really increased and I am very happy with the quality of the pictures it is taking.  I know that I still have a lot to learn about the camera and what it can do, but oh what fun in the learning!

I've put all the pictures that I have taken in April on my website so you can see them.  Most of them are labelled under April 2012.  Feel free to take a gander and let me know what you think.  Hopefully I will be updating my pictures a lot more frequently now, so at least you will know that what you see, is what you get.

Kate x

Cheltenham!

I've moved!!!!

Finally things have all happened and I have somewhere to work from.  I can not tell you how hard it has been in the last few months and how delighted I am to finally have a place I can make into a second home and work from.

I absolutely adore Cheltenham and the beautiful weather we are having is making it all the more desirable.  I'm in a lovely area, which is literally moments away from the town centre and The brewery, so plenty of places to dine, should anyone fancy a wine, dine and 69 booking.  My apartment is perfect and not too dissimilar to my old place (which if you had been there you would know was very nice).  It is a bit smaller, but if anything that just makes it more cosy, oh and the shower is loads better than the last one, so no having to muck about trying to get it start lol.

My first fortnight working here is nearly up and I have to say I have had a great time.  I've really enjoyed decorating the rooms and making them my own and have been a bit naughty, as I invested £250 in a set of drawers, but they were soooo nice and I had to have some.  I also had a lot of fun going round the charity shops and found a few bits and pieces for the living room.  I've even bought a little leather box for the bathroom and have put in it a face towel, razor, toothbrush etc a long with some new gorgeous egyptian cotton towels.  Literally every thing I can think of to make your stay as enjoyable as possible.

I've also met some lovely new chaps and I wanted to thank them by offering them £20 off their next booking if one hour or longer.  So, you know who you are, if we have met in the last couple of weeks, come and get your discount.  If we haven't met yet, then come and pay the full price the first time and get your discount the second time.  It doesn't matter if you have a half hour booking, or any other type of booking, as long as I have seen you once.  With that and the fact that I do offer CIM from the second booking on, what are you waiting for? lol.

There is also an offer for AW users, but please go on my profile to check that out.

I'm off from Thursday afternoon for a while, as I'm spending some time with friends, but I will be back later in the week, before disappearing for a second long weekend to celebrate the Easter bank holiday Monday.  Hopefully things will return to normal again after that and I'll be about in Cheltenham from Monday morning, until Thursday afternoon. 

For my Worcester friends, of course you are welcome to come and see me still, I'm not far off J10 of the M5, so only 3 junctions further South and I'll be happy to do outcall visits in Worcester when I return home, which will usually be Thursday to Saturday evening.

Take care all and continue enjoying this lovely sunshine while you can.  We have no idea how long it will last! lol.

Kate x

Where do I stand on being an Escort?

Hi again!  Well, I wrote this a few weeks ago on a forum that I go on Escort-Ireland and it's had a response that I had never imagined, so I thought perhaps I should share it with the rest of you and see what you think?  Here goes...

One of the things that I love about this forum is that people bring up lots of controversial topics and are as a rule readily willing to voice their opinion. It does sometimes feel that there is no middle ground though. You either go one way or the other and anyone who sits in the middle, just can't be telling the truth. However, that often seems to be where I sit.

This has caused me to take a look at myself. Am I trying to kid myself? Am I unintentionally just saying what the guys want to hear? Am I doing things wrong? The thing is, I don't know about anyone else, but I didn't get here by following someone elses example. I didn't have someone to show me the ropes and I've never worked in a parlour or been given a job description criteria, so I have literally taken my previoius business knowledge and sexual experiences and combined the two to present myself as Kate.

Having worked for myself before, I have found that what ever you are selling people want a good product, someone who knows their product and a fair price. If you are selling a product that is exclusive and well made, then people are generally happy to pay more and willing to wait for the product if it is being made bespoke for them. I believe that the same goes for Escorting. I try and give an exclusive experience and one that will not just satisfy, but be something to remember. I make an effort to accomodate in pleasant surroundings, set the mood, have drinks at hand and good bathroom facilities (including clean dry towels). I then present myself in a way that I hope will be desirable, seductive and enchanting. This list goes on.

Moving from the business side of things there is also the point of job satisfaction. I get an incredible amount of job satisfaction from Escorting. When you meet someone who is nervous, excited or disjointed in their own life and by the time they leave you they have a huge smile on their face and look totally at ease and happy, then you just can't not feel good about yourself. When you get told that because of you they gone out and met a lady and they are now happy for the first time in years, because you gave them the confidence to date again, you can't help but feel proud. When you're told that they haven't had sex in 7 years and finally they feel like a man again, or you're being hugged and kissed by someone who was desperate just to be close to someone and feel special... how can you not know what you are doing is right?

I am an emotional person and yes sometimes my moods swing and I can go from elated to frustrated, then angry to overwhelmed, but I think this is who I am, this is what maybe sets me apart. I really do give a part of myself to everyone I meet and I do geniunely enjoy myself. I do respond to touch, to kisses, to the chemistry that passes between me and some of the clients. I do feel desire and I do get wet and I do orgasm.

I can't say that it is the same with everyone I meet. To say that would be lying. Sometimes I am instantly attracted, sometimes I am taken over by the skill of the person I am with and some times I find myself liking someone and wanting to make them happy, sometimes it is all 3. Which ever it is, the response is not fake, but led by a willingness to please and be pleased. A desire for enjoyment and fulfillment for both of us.

There will always be times when you don't click with someone, or for one reason or another it is just not happening. Often you can tell by the phone call if there is a big character difference. If the person is abrupt, talks to you like you are a list of services and not a person, appears to have no idea who you are or asks you personal questions. When I come across people like this, I will usually tell them that I don't think I am right for them and they will need to look else where. I also have an age limit that I adhere to. I won't see anyone under the age of 21. I love young men, but younger than that and it feels wrong and I do have to keep within my comfort zone. I also won't see men over the age of 60. Yes there are some attractive older men and I have met some in the past, but I have also encountered men that reminded me of my Grandad and it felt wrong. Again it is my choice and I am happy with the decision that I have made.

It is important that I keep within my comfort zone and I also don't believe in over doing it workwise. The most men I have ever seen in one day while on tour is 5 and if I am honest, I was sooooo tired by the end of the day, I didn't work at all the next day. Since then 4 has been my maximum and that seems to be fine. However, if I'm not in the right frame of mind, or I'm tired, or I see someone for a longer booking, then I won't push myself. I want to give 100% every time and keep the smile on my face too, so for me it is important to work to a pace that suits.

The highlights have got to be the way that many clients treat me. I have been taken out for meals many times and had some wonderful times. I've been treated like a true lady, pampered, massaged, bought my favourite perfume (coco chanel) and introduced to coco mademoiselle, which I now have the perfume and the shower gel. I've been given flowers, chocolates, soda bread, cakes etc and quite frankly treated better than my ex husband ever treated me. It's wonderful to be appreciated, it's the most amazing feeling when someone (who doesn't need to) gives you something to just make you happy.

I'm not denying that there are down sides. There are times when you want to cry (or do in my case) when you get a zillion timewasters, or people trying to make trouble for you, or worse still other girls trying to put you down and break your spirit, but... being able to pay my bills, look after my son and save to make life easier in the future; being able to re-train in new skills and have a decent sex life without all the problems of a relationship and all the friends you make on the way, far ways out the bad side.

Of course it could be made better. I'd love to be able to be honest to my family and friends, but of course I can't. I'd love not to have to worry when touring that I may get kicked out of premises or have someone threaten me. I wish the government would stop trying to make out that all girls are trafficked and doing this against there will. Yes sort trafficking out, no one should go through that, but leave the geniune independent ladies alone and let them work in pairs, it's safer!

Something that might be difficult to understand, but is true. I've been single now for well over a decade. Before I started Escorting I was adamanent that I would not be in another relationship. I did not think that I was compatible with men mentally and where I still liked men, I just didn't think there was anyone out there for me. Thanks to Escorting I have learnt that I was putting way too much emphasis on looks before. What I had not considered is that where someone can start out being attractive and lose their attraction as you discover their true character, the same can be said in reverse. A good person has an inner beauty that sometimes is not apparent on first look, but when you get to know them, they really do shine. I've also found that people who I enjoy the company of and am sexually compatible with are good for me. I want to be with them and look forward to seeing them.

So... maybe, when I retire I will give myself a chance to settle down after all. I'm not ready yet, but I'm getting there and that is thanks to you!

ps I know there are a couple of spelling errors in here and when I seek them out I will correct them, but until then, please ignore them and accept that I was engrossed in what I was saying, which led to the mistakes.  I am only human after all x

When time stood still

Well, I got back from Dublin a whole week ago now and life has been very sedate since.  I've been fulfilling my role as a Mother and sorting out a few things that needed doing, but really there is a forboding sense of being in 'limbo' about me at the moment, since I no longer have a place to take in calls from.

Sadly plans to be up and running in Cheltenham in March have fallen through. I'm not entirely sure why, but I hope it is a glitch and not something that will follow me to my next choice of location.  I will be resuming my search this week and fingers crossed will be able to put the matter straight, as I'm finding it awfully frustrating at the moment when the phone rings and I have to apologies for not being available for in calls.

For the moment I am trying to make myself available for outcalls, but I hope you can appreciate being a Mum, I can't just disappear at a moments notice.  Things need arranging and excuses need making and I also need to shower, put my make-up on and dress appropriately, which of course is not my every day look for around the home and all takes time.

If you would like to book for for an outcall I would love to come to you, but please, please, give me as much notice as you possibly can.  I hope that you would not be disappointed, after all this lack of opportunity is doing nothing for my sex life lol and I'm missing it probably far more than my regs who are presently unable to see me.

Due to the fact that I am not presently able to offer in calls unless on tour, I will not be charging any fuel costs within Worcestershire, Gloucestershire or birmingham.  However  the length of the booking will be affected.  I will take half hour bookings only within Worcester itself.  One hour bookings within a 20 mile radius and 2 hour plus every where else.

I'm also happy to continue offering, wine, dine & 69 bookings with one hour private time, plus social time at £250 and 2 hours private time, plus social at £350.  This is a set rate for any of the above locations, with your accomodation, be it a hotel or your residents.

I will only take overnight bookings from gentleman I have met before.

I will of course let you know if and when the situation changes, but I think next time I will wait until I have signed on the dotted line.

Take care all and I hope to see you soon.

Kate x

New starts

2011 ended with a bit of unheavel for me.  After getting my first apartment in April, I was very wary of the neighbours and never wanted to push it, so in the main I worked Monday to Friday during office hours and rarely took on more than 3 clients in a day.  I continuted touring as well, which meant that I was often not using the apartment at all, but still soon after renewing the contract for a 2nd time for a further 6 months the trouble began.

The apartments had a committee and they had sent a letter direct to the letting agency complaining that my curtains were always drawn and that they were suspicious of the amount of visitors I was having.  I directly sent a letter of explanation.  My landlord already knew that I was working from the apartment, as I had told them and they were fine about it.  I also explained that my Mum had been having problems and that I had been staying with her, hence the curtains shut.  Thankfully the agency and my landlord were happy with this, but not the committee, who then continued to send me threatening letters.

The message threatened me with the Act of 1956, section 33.  For those of you that don't know it, it is concerned with brothels and there to protect people from being trafficed and abused and has absolutely nothing to do with independent Escorts.  This alone had no hold on me, but... they said that they would contact the police if I continued to work from the apartment and that they had ways of finding out who my visitors were and would get the police onto them as well.  I assumed by this they meant that they would take note of their vehicle registration numbers.  So despite the fact that I was doing nothing wrong I immediately decided to stop using my apartment. 

This meant that I was still having to pay the rent and in order to pay the rent I needed to continue touring and using other premises and make more excuses for not being home.  This has been stressful as I do also run a business and have a dependent at home, so things have had to suffer.  I've obviously not been able to save any money over the last 3 months or so and have had to dip into my savings to keep afloat, which is soul destroying, as I was starting to do really well and was more than half way towards paying off my first big loan.

Thankfully things have really started to turn around though and the pressure is nearly off.  I'm going to be moving from Worcester and taking myself down the M5 slightly and working 10 minutes off the M5, J10 instead.  The place is very different to the space I am used to but, it's perfect for what I need and I am really looking forward to it.  I am hoping to be there in time for the Gold Cup, which is great as I have wanted to work there during the gold cup for the last 2 years, but the prices of accomodation are way too high at that time.

Hopefully some of my regulars will follow me there, although I understand that some of them will not be able to travel that far and would like to thank them for all the lovely times we have had together.  I also look forward to meeting some new people and getting some new regulars.  I believe I have already met one, who was very sweet and helped me with which area to look at within Cheltenham.  I met him for the first time yesterday, as I'm currently working in cheltenham for the week and he was lovely.

So... fingers crossed for 2012 and new beginnings.  I believe I have learnt a lot from this experience and it's so good to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Kate x

The secret to the smile!

This weekend while parking up in town I noticed my Mum's car was already parked up in the carpark.  I duly rang her to find out where she was and what she was doing and we arranged to meet up for tea and cake in one of the local stores.  It transpired that she had my sister's step daughter with her and I happen to know that she is mad on Hello Kitty, so when I saw some Hello Kitty things on sale in WHSmith I felt compelled to buy her a little notepad and pen, as I thought it would keep her happy while we chatted.

When I got to the store they were already there and we organised a cup of tea and shared a yummy doughnut, which was very nice and naughty.  My Mum said that she had been asked who she was talking to my the little girl with us and she asked if it was my Sister on the phone, where upon my Mum replied, 'No it wasn't ****** it was ****** the happy one!  She was far too cheerful to be *****! Which is when she took a step back from her thoughts and realised what she had said and apparently they started to discuss between them how I am always happy, even when things are not going well in my life.

My first reaction was to be happy funnily enough that they both thought I was a happy person lol and they liked being around me for that reason.  Then my Mum asked me how I stay so happy and at the time I really could not put my finger on it, but in truth if I had I would not be able to tell her, because I truely believe that it is down to the Escorting I am doing.  It kind of kills two birds with one stone.

Let me explain.  Before I started Escorting I did have escalating debts.  I can't profess to be swimming in money now, but my bills are being paid and I am slowly banking up small amounts that will one day go towards paying off my debts and that is a very very satisfying feeling, especially for someone like myself who is very independent and proud of being self sufficient.  Then of course there is that most wonderful act of SEX!  I can't begin to tell you how much I enjoy it, how much I love making other people happy and adore being stimulated to the point of no return. I love it, love it, love it!  How could anyone not be happy when they are being given the opportinity to get deliciously tactile with such a wonderful array of people?  Not just that but the lovely warm hugs, the smiles, the laughter and the euphoria that you can't help but feel when being intimate with someone.

If anyone can let me know a way of explaining this happiness to my Mum without giving the game away I would be eternally grateful lol, as I really don't think she would understand, bless her.

Having said all that, I should be feeling rather glum today, as I have effectively paid for 2 apartments in which to work and not one booking.  Thank God for the lovely gentleman I saw yesterday afternoon, as I'm still revelling from that and how they made me feel.  I hope I do get a top up tomorrow though, as it's my last full day of being able to take incalls before next week.

Kate x