Spring Cleaning

This month has been a busy old month, with so many things to do.  Sometimes I don't know which direction to look in.  On a personal note, I seem to have got myself banned from http://www.ukpunting.com/  I don't actually know what I have done other than perhaps posting a couple of lame threads on the off-topic board, but what ever it was, apparently it does not fit in with the ethos of the site.  I doubt anyone from there is going to read this, but I will dearly miss Lurtz who used to make me laugh on a daily basis.  I will miss Matium who I often enjoyed the odd pm with and I was just getting to know cactus jock, shade and I was really pleased that softlad had been made a moderator, as I considered him a decent sort.  I haven't spoken to him of late, but I wish Simple well and Smiths, who I also consider to be a decent person. 

Oh how I laugh!  I've just been told of something that has been written on UKP about me.  I used to go under the name of Lady Poppy on there.  Here is the quote: 'I have met Lady Poppy and until now have made no comment.  She is one mixed up woman with serious emotional problems.  She has been 'using' this forum to play mind games.
I will say no more.'  Now, the thing is we had corresponded and Wayang comes across as a reasonable man when talking one to one and as he had been off on his adventures, I got drawn into what he was doing and convinced myself that he would be an interesting person to meet.  However, he is fairly old and at the time when I met him, I still had a few issues with regards to men that were old enough to be my Dad.  With this in mind we agreed to meet up for dinner and if we hit it off I said I would join him at his hotel.

Considering I was not charging him for the meal time I had thought he might put some effort into the introductory time together and take me some where nice.  I don't mean very expensive, but somewhere that was at least a proper restaurant with a bit of atmosphere, where perhaps I would not look out of place wearing a nice dress.  Instead he took me to a place that looked like it needed comdemning, there were very few people in there and the ones that were wore jeans and there were kids running around.  There was a very small shrivelled up dry buffet to choose from or very basic menu.   I was hungry, as I had been looking forward to the meal and went for the buffet, but it was almost inedible.  Wayang went for a Ceaser Salad and didn't look like he really wanted to eat at all.

The conversation was dry and difficult and I felt like I stood out like a sore thumb.  The whole time the few people in there were staring at us and we looked very mismatched.  If he had been warm and if I had felt he really wanted to be there, if the conversation had flowed, then I likely would have happily of followed him on to the hotel, but as it was I couldn't wait to get away.  It was a nighmare!

I have never brought this up on the forum, as until recently he had never done anything to make me not respect him as a person and I put our situation down to there just being no click.  He had wanted me to go back with him, which surpised me at the time, but I feel that just because I'm an Escort does not mean I have to offer the goods.  It is up to me who I work with and he is one of a very small handful of people I have refused.  It was nothing to do with his age, but more to do with feeling uncomfortable while with him.  He new the score when we agreed and there was always a possibility that I may not go back with him.  I didn't take a penny from him and I don't think he spent any more than it had cost me in fuel to get there, so I don't think he has anything to complain about.

I do not have issues and I do not play mind games.  I generally leave the men to that!  I also don't appreciate him waiting for me to be banned from the forum before talking about me.  Seems a bit cowardly to me.  Don't you think?

Also, it is being said that we were trying to get pictures of mods to 'out' them or something like that.  Why would we when we were happily enjoying the forum?  It is absurd!  The truth is someone had shown a picture of JRC to another member, who in turn told me and one other he had seen it.  I then admitted that I had seen a picture of him when I used to frequent the pnet chat room, but I didn't have a copy.  The member who had not seen him, said she would like to know what he looked like.  That was it!  Omg! How awful! lol

I have some bloody good feedback, reviews, Field reports.  I work hard and I LOVE my job.  What on earth would I want to jeopodise my good name for?  What would I get out of it exactly?  I was disappointed to be kicked off, I was a regular contributor (much to the disgust of Wayang and James999), I enjoyed the company of most.  It makes no sense whatsoever and is a pathetic attempt to explain our shocking ban that was for no good reason without warning.

This is what I wrote before finding out what was being said about me >There are of course certain individuals that I will not miss and I really don't think it necessary to rake up their names as they really are better off forgotten.   I was quite surprised at one of them, who although I did not click with when I met him, I thought that he was mature enough to understand why the booking didn't go ahead and not the type to throw his dummy out of the pram.  It would seem that I was wrong.

On looking for an alternative I stumbled across http://www.adultworkforum.com/  Great! I thought and duly added my details.  I then looked through the members list which was extensive, but noticed that around 96% of the members had never posted and there were only 2 or 3 posts in total.  Ok, I thought, that might not be a bad thing.  I know 3 people who have just been banned from UKP who might be interested in a new place, so I'll say my hello's and let them know about it.  I got banned literally trying to write the intro!  Banned! This was all before 8am this morning lol.  It was accusing me of spamming.  I had used the word 'adultwork' in my intro, but I assumed as it was the title of the forum it would be ok.  I was trying to cutnpaste my intro and send it to the 'contact us' section when I finally got banned FOREVER!  Looks like I won't be going there then!

In the meantime I have a very good friend of mine (who I met on UKP) looking in to the idea of starting up a new forum that is equally tolerant to both Clients and Escorts and accomodates all of our needs and allows for a little light hearted banter without accusations of 'spamming', 'touting' or any other silly narrow minded thing.  I know there are other places and I do occassionally pop over to Punternet, Punterchat etc, but some how I've not yet found the place that truly suits my personality.  Maybe there isn't one?

You know what they say.  If you can't beat them, then join them.  It seems this is what we are going to attempt to do.  Here is the link http://sexualintercourse.websitetoolbox.com/  If it takes off we will get a better domain name, but I think we need to give it a chance first.  Why not join up and see what you think?

Having come back down to earth from my amazing tours in Newcastle and Belfast I have been working very hard on getting my apartment tip top.  I am quite in love with it and am especially happy with the bedrooms that both have kingsize beds in them and I put the beds together myself!  I have taken some pictures, but just need to spend 5 minutes reducing the size, so I will add them to here asap.  I will only include the bedroom pictures, as I do need to be careful with areas that might be seen by neighbours should they decide to visit for a cuppa.   I could do with a couple more pieces of furniture like the odd chair, dressing table or drawers, but I am managing with what I have so far.  I've even got a t.v now, so I can entertain myself when I am not busy, although the reception is a little pants.

Bedroom One

The neighbours all seem nice so far.  I've spoken to 2 or 3 of them.  Most of them are older than me and appear to be out during the day, which makes life a lot easier.  So far no one has suspected anything and if I can just train the clients to stay in their cars when they call for the final directions, it would be great lol.  I guess with being new it might not look too suspect people asking directions via a mobile phone, but... it probably does make people assume the caller is here for me and no one else, which I really don't want.

Bedroom Two

I've also been working on a menu or three.  I really would like to use the apartment for some overnight bookings and some really intimate girlfriend type experiences, where I cook for you and we spend the evening, maybe watching a movie (the telly is fine for dvds), me cooking a 3 course meal and us having lots of fun in the mix of the evening.  Hey I could even make a cooked breakfast, breakfast in bed?  If you would like to see the menu's I have them up on my website http://www.curvaceouskate.escort-site.com/ under the heading of menu.  Yes here is an extra charge for them, but I think in comparison to going out for a meal, they would actually be saving money in the long run, especially as you can bring a bottle or two with you and save on the bar bill too.  Mines a red by the way :)

Back at home I have had a few trials and tribulations with my offspring.  He has enjoyed me being away far too much and was thoroughly miffed at me asking him to mow the lawn.  So much so he left home for 3 days.  In retrospect I should have known he was ok and used the time to my advantage and come round to the apartment, but no I had to do the typical Mother thing and get upset and cry and do all the silly things, like thinking he was in every ambulance that drove by me when I was on the road.  Of course he was fine and since I had made a start on the lawn, he came home and offered to finish it and didn't ask for a penny.  I decided to invest in a new mower, as the lasts one was on it's last legs, so I went over it one more time and picked up all the grass cuttings, as the last one hadn't for some reason.  Then I tended to my tomatoes, chilli's, courgests etc.  Not sure why, but one of the tomato plants has died on me.  I think it might have something to do with my pussy cat deciding to use the area for her toilet habits.  She is a cheeky pussy cat and I have told her several times to stop, but she doesn't seem to be getting it lol.  I may well see if I can replace that one, if I'm not too late.

I also managed to get rid of a few things using freecycle, as the house is very cluttered and really needs a damn good clear out.  I should really be going down the tip and getting rid of all the cuttings, but there is too much for one person to do and I'm on my own today.

As I approach my two year point as an Escort I have come to realise that my initial fears of not fancying people and therefore not being able to perform were totally unwarranted.  It is funny how we get brain washed into believing that you have to like people in a certain way to be with them and that they need to be so high, such and such a colour hair, age etc.  The reality is, if you can have a bit of banter with them in the first place, if they smell nice and they do consider what turns you on then it doesn't matter who they are or what they look like you can have a really good time.  In fact the guy that I had a little crush on didn't conform to my pre-escorting 'type'.  Does this make me a changed person?  I believe it does.  Does it make me a better person?  Damn, yes it does!  I hate judgemental people and there I was being exactly that.  Now I reserve judgment until I have met them and I would honestly say that I would be happy to see 98% of the clients I have met again, or as often as they liked, because they are lovely people.  I hope they think the same of me.

I did a very quick photoshoot in one of my bedrooms last week.  The colours are nice and vibrant in it.  I bought a shutter for my camera, which works great, but sadly you can't use the flash when it is attached properly so I had it procariously balanced to the side, so I could use it.  The pictures are ok, but I'm sure I will improve yet again with time, patience and practice.  Here is one of the pictures...

I am aware of my tummy on here, but I did put 3lb on during my tours.  Once the Easter egg has gone (I only had one) I will be back on the diet and do intend to lose another full stone, so please do not worry.  This picture certainly reminds me that I need to lol.

On that note I think that's all I have to write really.  It has been lovely to have some glorious weather, I am enjoying the beautiful views from my apartment and the fact it is tidy and looks lovely.  I'm looking forward to spending alot of time here and good luck to William and Kate with their forth coming marriage.

Kate x