Where I live in Worcester it is a fairly mainstream place. People do not vary that much and the majority are white, professionals, so when the phone rings I usually just get asked a few questions about me and 9 times out of 10 a booking is created. It's rather simple and straight forward really and thinking about it the only time I get asked if I am ok with them is if they are very young or around pensionable age and then they might just double check that I am ok with that.
Bearing this in mind, when I first joined Punternet and was very green I admitted on the forum that I was asking potential clients for photo verification and their age, as I had an upper age limit. In my mind I was creating a safety net with the photo verification. Having a picture on my computer, if anything happened to me, then the person would be traceable (that was my thinking) and the age thing was nothing to do with me not fancying older men, but the fact that I married one and being married for me was the most God awful experience. I was pretty much mentally abused during my marriage and the scars are still with me today, despite it being over a decade ago since I got divorced.
The reaction on Punternet was not good. I got slated badly, shunned by some and bad mouthed by others. At one point I was told to go back to swinging (by other ladies) as I was not an Escort and that I must be using the pictures to blackmail people by some of the more scenior members. A lot of assumptions were made and I was basically given the cold shoulder for discriminating. Oh and then of course I was discriminated against for joining UKP, as I must be a horrible person for wanting to be there, despite the fact that I just wanted to be treated fairly and without reproach. Of course UKP was not really the right place for me and that soon came to a natural and rather abrupt end, but sometimes we do things as a reaction more than anything and being shunned led me to look elsewhere.
Of course I know longer ask for face pics, it really was a pointless task, although it did make me feel safer at the time and it meant I was able to get used to the idea of meeting that person a bit before actually doing so, but sometimes it served to put me off the meeting, as you can read things into pictures that are not really there. Like a hardness to the face etc. I suppose I just needed to break myself in gently to the world I am now so familiar with.
Why I decided to discuss this topic today is due to having toured quite extensively now I have been quite surprised at just how many people are discriminated against by Escorts. While recently working in Nottingham I had several calls that asked a question that indicated they had been discriminated against by other people. Such as. I'm a biker, is that ok? A biker???? Why would that be a problem? I'm so confused!!!! Seriously this chap said he would be travelling by bike and apparently he has been refused to be seen due to this or at least he felt the need to tell me. Of course it isn't a problem.
The next one... we arranged the booking and then he said, 'Oh I'm black by the way, is that ok?' Ummm... of course it is ok, why wouldn't it be? To date including this gentleman I have only seen 2 black men during Escorting and half a dozen Asian. Why on earth would colour of skin have any impact on who I would see and it really, really bugs me that these people are having to sound apologetic for who they are. The tone of his voice when he said those words were so apologetic and you could feel the pause between asking and waiting for my response. It makes me sooooo angry! He was nice and polite on the phone, he was clearly English by his accent. Of course I will see him.
The list goes on of lovely guys who seem to feel they have to ask if something about them is ok and I have come to realise that I am probably one of the least discriminating people I know. I'm not going to judge someone for being poor, rich, a different race, handsome, ugly, fat, thin etc. The only time consideration is taken into place is if there is a communication problem, as I think this is vital to having a safe and enjoyable booking and sometimes my gut instinct will warn me off a booking. If someone approaches me in a vulgar manner or rude, then I won't take the booking. If they request something I do not feel comfortable with etc.
Reference the age restriction that I first started with, well I think some of my regulars could tell you that is history now. It's been a bit of a journey for me, as it was more a pyschological one than physical, but I have got my ex husband out of my system now and understand that being older, does not mean they are going to treat me badly or dictate to me and that some of the nicest men I have met have been twice my age. Of course we all have our fetishes and yes I do still get excited at the thought of a chap in his 20s wanting to play with me, but I also look forward to the more mature clients, who take time to understand how my body works and what buttons to press and of course the ones that appreciate me on a mental level, as well as the physical.
In my world variety is a wonderful thing. I believe that we learn from each other and the more differences we come into contact with the greater understanding for each other we have. I embrace difference, rejoice in difference and love difference. In life we tend to be scared of the unknown, because we do not know how to react with it or the unpredictability of it. Take the time to become familiar and all your fears will melt away and you will wonder why you ever feared it in the first place.
That's it really. Is there a moral to this blog? Perhaps don't be too quick to judge, don't make assumptions and assume you know why someone reacts the way they do and if someone rejects you for something as base as the colour of you skin or the mode of transport you take, then they probably would not be right for you anyway, but don't feel embarrased for who you are or what you do, as no one has the right to tell you that you are not good enough and if they do, it is they who is not good enough, as they haven't worked out that the world is a big place and there is a whole lot of discovery to be had, which will broaden their horizons and make them a better person.
English Kate In Belfast a short walk from the Albert Clock. Also touring the Republic of Ireland. Ask if you would like me to tour in your area x Tel: 07564749474 or 086 400 6295
Sunday, 18 September 2011
Tuesday, 6 September 2011
Affairs of the heart
I'm lying in my bed at 6.21am with tear stained face. I don't really know exactly why I have been crying or why my heart is hurting or why I feel quite so miserable right now, but I do. There are times when Escorting is the best job in the world and I feel on top of the world. I feel empowered, adored, sexy, confident and many other wonderful feelings, but then there is also the down side. Sometimes you connect with someone and you get a little bit of what I suppose would be someone elses normality, as in tenderness, you don't want the booking to end, you connect mentally and when they touch you it makes you heart miss a beat.
There was a time before I started Escorting that I would not see anyone who was married, even though I was Swinging at the time. I used to call it self preservation, but also out of respect for their partners. Oddly now that I am Escorting I find that actually it is better to meet with married men, because they have something to lose should they fall for you and keep things in perspective. It's easier to keep the boundaries and even though sometimes I might think to myself, 'if things were different' or he is exactly the type I'd like to settle with one day, it doesn't cross the line.
However the single guys it's not quite the same. It can creep up on you. I had one client who lives all the way up in Scotland, a good 8 hours from me. We met twice on two different occassions for bookings and after the second booking he decided that he could not book me again, as it felt wrong and he didn't like that he had to pay when he kept forgetting it was a transaction, because it felt right and I guess it was messing with his head a bit. I admit that I was disappointed as I had enjoyed our time together and to be honest we had spent a lot more time than the booking allowed, because my location in Edinburgh was wrong and I wasn't getting any bookings in, so we met up for dinner and he showed me round a bit. We had a really good time together.
My next visit was to Glasgow and we found time to go out to dinner (non work) and we had a really good time again and since it was not a paid for experience it stopped at that. We kissed good bye and I admit I wished he had booked me, because it would have felt right if we had ended up in bed together, but he didn't so that was that. He on the other hand may have felt the same, but didn't want to feel that there had to be a money transaction in order for me to bed him. The problem is, if I had then things would have moved on to another level and I can't have that. I need to stay focussed on my work and I don't want to be thinking about one person and let's face it, we don't live close to each other. In my mind the perfect solution is for him to book me so we can have all the fun without getting too close.
I suppose in many ways that makes me selfish? I don't want to get too close to him, so therefore he should pay me and I don't like it when I see he is paying to sleep with other Escorts. I don't understand why it is ok for him to pay and see other girls and yet he can't with me? I suppose that is something that one of you guys might be able to explain to me?
Not being the type to say nothing I have messaged him and he has come to the conclusion that we should just meet up now and again and go out to dinner together, but we have tried this and judging by my reaction it isn't going to work. I feel like he is denying me something that could be pretty awesome due to our connection and giving it to someone else. We are more than just friends in the sense that we do have a sexual connection and where he might be able to deny it, I can't.
So... I won't have sex without payment and he won't pay me for sex. Neither of us is right and neither of us is wrong. No one is being nasty or stepping out of line, but it brings up so many emotions & frustration. I have to ask myself, would I be in this situation with any other job? I very much doubt it. Is this more to do with the distance or the job that I am doing? I mean I have maintained up until now that I could not date while doing this job, as it would be far too compromising and yet I have met Escorts that are happily married and do it. I've seen their interaction with their partners and it's quite enviable and lovely. There is also the point that he probably wouldn't want to date an Escort and couldn't cope with the fact that I am working with other men.
This then begs the question. Do Escorts that already have a solid relationship make better Escorts than us volatile single Escorts?
It's funny as my mind is often in a quandry. This may have escalated a little further than most situations, but it is by no means a one off. I often find myself in situations where a client feels a connection and because they are not used to feeling that way they take it to heart and want to get closer. I'm often finding myself needing to take a step back. Thinking about it I guess it is only natural that now and again I'm going to need to vent and let all the emotion out. Like cleaning the slate before starting all over again. It's quite surprising how someone who has often thought of herself as being totally incompatible with anyone can find herself being compatible with so many. Perhaps I'm not as different to other people as I thought I was.
Before Escorting I spent most of my life outside of marriage on my own. I rarely dated and the dates never seemed to work out. In retrospect I think this was less about me and more about my situation. I was a young Mum working in a world of women. I didn't go out in the evenings and still wondered why I never met anyone. Then I started to think that I was incompatible to anyone, too set in my ways and not attractive. How foolish was I?
Looking at the positive side (which is something I always try to do) at least now I know that I am compatible with many different people on different levels, that I'm not unattractive, at least there will always be men that are attracted to me and I'm not set in my ways, as I am dealing with new situations every day of my life.
People often complain about how much money Escorts get paid, but believe me when you think of all the things we have to go through to remain professional, keeping our sanity, emotionally stable, our safety and the stigma attached. It all adds up.
Another thing that I personally find difficult to bear is the total lack of respect that some people seem to have for sex workers. They assume it is an unskilled job and one that does not require brain power. How wrong are they! I use far more skills working as in Independent than I have done in most previous jobs and I'm qualified beyond degree level. I'm not that clever, more of a hard worker, but still I have shown I am able to use my brain and do on a daily basis. To be able to interact with different people at different levels every day is not easy and not anyone could do this. Advertising is a huge part of the job. If no one knows about you, then you're not going to be making a living out of it. In my case I travel a lot and have to organise schedules, hotels, apartments etc. I'm a PA as well!
In my last job I was able to hold my head up high, it was a respected job, but just wasn't paying enough and it got me into debt. This job I work much harder at and it is getting me out of debt. In many ways I'd like to have my back patted and told that I'm doing well and appreciated for the work I am putting in to straighten out the problems, but it won't happen, because I can't tell anyone and again, that is frustrating.
I'm not sure why writing is so theraputic, but it is and I do feel a lot better after getting that off my chest. Before I stop though, I want to reassure a few of my friends out there, that this little wobble has nothing to do with our friendships and they don't mean any less, just because I allowed myself to feel hurt for a while. I need to learn to deal with situations that are very real emotionally and it's not always easy. I needed to purge this out of my system and writing this has really helped.
Now I could really do with some tlc if anyone has any going spare.
Kate x
There was a time before I started Escorting that I would not see anyone who was married, even though I was Swinging at the time. I used to call it self preservation, but also out of respect for their partners. Oddly now that I am Escorting I find that actually it is better to meet with married men, because they have something to lose should they fall for you and keep things in perspective. It's easier to keep the boundaries and even though sometimes I might think to myself, 'if things were different' or he is exactly the type I'd like to settle with one day, it doesn't cross the line.
However the single guys it's not quite the same. It can creep up on you. I had one client who lives all the way up in Scotland, a good 8 hours from me. We met twice on two different occassions for bookings and after the second booking he decided that he could not book me again, as it felt wrong and he didn't like that he had to pay when he kept forgetting it was a transaction, because it felt right and I guess it was messing with his head a bit. I admit that I was disappointed as I had enjoyed our time together and to be honest we had spent a lot more time than the booking allowed, because my location in Edinburgh was wrong and I wasn't getting any bookings in, so we met up for dinner and he showed me round a bit. We had a really good time together.
My next visit was to Glasgow and we found time to go out to dinner (non work) and we had a really good time again and since it was not a paid for experience it stopped at that. We kissed good bye and I admit I wished he had booked me, because it would have felt right if we had ended up in bed together, but he didn't so that was that. He on the other hand may have felt the same, but didn't want to feel that there had to be a money transaction in order for me to bed him. The problem is, if I had then things would have moved on to another level and I can't have that. I need to stay focussed on my work and I don't want to be thinking about one person and let's face it, we don't live close to each other. In my mind the perfect solution is for him to book me so we can have all the fun without getting too close.
I suppose in many ways that makes me selfish? I don't want to get too close to him, so therefore he should pay me and I don't like it when I see he is paying to sleep with other Escorts. I don't understand why it is ok for him to pay and see other girls and yet he can't with me? I suppose that is something that one of you guys might be able to explain to me?
Not being the type to say nothing I have messaged him and he has come to the conclusion that we should just meet up now and again and go out to dinner together, but we have tried this and judging by my reaction it isn't going to work. I feel like he is denying me something that could be pretty awesome due to our connection and giving it to someone else. We are more than just friends in the sense that we do have a sexual connection and where he might be able to deny it, I can't.
So... I won't have sex without payment and he won't pay me for sex. Neither of us is right and neither of us is wrong. No one is being nasty or stepping out of line, but it brings up so many emotions & frustration. I have to ask myself, would I be in this situation with any other job? I very much doubt it. Is this more to do with the distance or the job that I am doing? I mean I have maintained up until now that I could not date while doing this job, as it would be far too compromising and yet I have met Escorts that are happily married and do it. I've seen their interaction with their partners and it's quite enviable and lovely. There is also the point that he probably wouldn't want to date an Escort and couldn't cope with the fact that I am working with other men.
This then begs the question. Do Escorts that already have a solid relationship make better Escorts than us volatile single Escorts?
It's funny as my mind is often in a quandry. This may have escalated a little further than most situations, but it is by no means a one off. I often find myself in situations where a client feels a connection and because they are not used to feeling that way they take it to heart and want to get closer. I'm often finding myself needing to take a step back. Thinking about it I guess it is only natural that now and again I'm going to need to vent and let all the emotion out. Like cleaning the slate before starting all over again. It's quite surprising how someone who has often thought of herself as being totally incompatible with anyone can find herself being compatible with so many. Perhaps I'm not as different to other people as I thought I was.
Before Escorting I spent most of my life outside of marriage on my own. I rarely dated and the dates never seemed to work out. In retrospect I think this was less about me and more about my situation. I was a young Mum working in a world of women. I didn't go out in the evenings and still wondered why I never met anyone. Then I started to think that I was incompatible to anyone, too set in my ways and not attractive. How foolish was I?
Looking at the positive side (which is something I always try to do) at least now I know that I am compatible with many different people on different levels, that I'm not unattractive, at least there will always be men that are attracted to me and I'm not set in my ways, as I am dealing with new situations every day of my life.
People often complain about how much money Escorts get paid, but believe me when you think of all the things we have to go through to remain professional, keeping our sanity, emotionally stable, our safety and the stigma attached. It all adds up.
Another thing that I personally find difficult to bear is the total lack of respect that some people seem to have for sex workers. They assume it is an unskilled job and one that does not require brain power. How wrong are they! I use far more skills working as in Independent than I have done in most previous jobs and I'm qualified beyond degree level. I'm not that clever, more of a hard worker, but still I have shown I am able to use my brain and do on a daily basis. To be able to interact with different people at different levels every day is not easy and not anyone could do this. Advertising is a huge part of the job. If no one knows about you, then you're not going to be making a living out of it. In my case I travel a lot and have to organise schedules, hotels, apartments etc. I'm a PA as well!
In my last job I was able to hold my head up high, it was a respected job, but just wasn't paying enough and it got me into debt. This job I work much harder at and it is getting me out of debt. In many ways I'd like to have my back patted and told that I'm doing well and appreciated for the work I am putting in to straighten out the problems, but it won't happen, because I can't tell anyone and again, that is frustrating.
I'm not sure why writing is so theraputic, but it is and I do feel a lot better after getting that off my chest. Before I stop though, I want to reassure a few of my friends out there, that this little wobble has nothing to do with our friendships and they don't mean any less, just because I allowed myself to feel hurt for a while. I need to learn to deal with situations that are very real emotionally and it's not always easy. I needed to purge this out of my system and writing this has really helped.
Now I could really do with some tlc if anyone has any going spare.
Kate x
Thursday, 11 August 2011
Summer Tour 2011
Tuesday I drove over to Derby and stayed at a new hotel to me. It was fine for what I needed and I would definitely stay there again. Nice big bed, pleasant staff and ice on tap lol. The distance from home for me is perfect to drive. I have come to realise that it is not wise for me to drive over 2 hours while on my own. I don't know what it is or if it is a common thing, but I find after the 2 hour mark I start to find it really difficult to remain focussed, I start to get really tired and generally uncomfortable. Even if I stop and have a rest I don't get that much more perky and I have to drink gallons of energy drinks to keep me going. Thankfully this is not an issue with the shorter drives or so much when I have company, as I don't notice the time passing by so much.
It was a nice little tootle and I arrived a little early, which was not a problem for the hotel and I went straight up to my room. I had 3 pre-bookings, 2 of which confirmed before and during my journey over there, but sadly the third one had vanished. I had a few calls on the day, but since I was feeling a little hungry and had not eaten since breakfast, which was fruit, I decided to find something to eat and settle down for the evening (it was gone 8pm by this time).
My first client was a gentlman I had chatted to on a couple of forums. I new that he liked to be forced a little and he particularly liked ladies wearing jeans or fishnet stockings. I went for the stockings option and that I would mix it up a bit with a little role play. I just happened to have my sexy police officer costume with me, so I put that on with some black boots. When he knocked on the door I stood back and as he was carrying a bottle of wine, I said, 'Thank you for attending the meeting reference your speeding, but I hope you're not going to try and bribe me with that wine!!!! Something like that would result in severe punishment! lol. I then had lots of fun forcing him to give me pleasure in abundance and a good time was had by all :)
My second encounter was with a gentleman who reminded me in looks of Bruce Forsyth (a fair bit younger mind). He was a really fun character and was very entertaining and what I love most is a man who enjoys what I do to him and he was awfully appreciative. I find that such a turn on and it makes me happy. We had lots of cuddles and spent some time chatting too. I love men that are young at heart and he certainly was.
I really do like working in Derby and I think when I have finished doing my tours of new places and discovery, I will put that down as a landmark to continue visiting. I may not have been overwhelmed with phone calls, but what you get here is quality and you can't beat that.
The next day I headed over to Manchester. A little concerned due to the news about the riots, but hoping that not being in the centre I would be fine. As it is I am pretty central still, but I've not had any real problems.
I think the riots did have a noted impact on my work. While in Manchester the phone was notably quiet and thankfully I had one pre-booking, otherwise I would have only had one booking for the whole two days. As it was I got on great with the pre-booking who unfortunately for him got let down by his 3rd lady in so many days and as we did get on very well, he asked to meet me for lunch the next day and have a second booking. Now, what can I tell you about this fellow? He looked a bit like Matthew Kelly in his younger days. Pretty fit for his years and lovely white whiskers, with a full head of hair to run your fingers through. He looked at least a decade younger than the age he said he was and had a great sense of humour. We (I think) enjoyed each others company equally, which led to some rather steamy sessions of fun. To be honest, I can't tell it any better than the man himself and he was kind enough to right a review on our experience, which can be found on Punternet. Here is the link for anyone interested enough to click on it. Punternet Report .
So... although a little disappointed at the lack of quantity during my time in Manchester, I was certainly not disappointed about the lack of quality. It was a fun time and relaxed, which is probably just as well with what was about to come around the corner!
Now when planning my tours, I don't do it haphazardly or without some form of research. I am predominantly looking for places that are discreet, offer secure parking and with easy access. It has little to with price or amazing food etc, these things are of minor importance to me. With this in mind, imagine my annoyance to find that the hotel I stayed at in Leeds did not just have a carpark across a very busy road, but it did not officially allow 24 hour parking and I had been given false information at worse and missed vital information at best by the staff at the hotel. So, having been armed with incorrect information and having 100 things on my mind, I do as instructed by them and wake up to a fine attached to my vehicle in the morning. Not being one to shy away from voicing my opinion I did mention it to the receptionist, who basically said I should have followed the instructions on the board. How am I supposed to do that from Worcester before arriving when deciding on where best to stay? He was adament it was my own fault, so I email their complaints section and get the same reply.
Now I don't know about you, but when I make a call, which is specific to car parking and am given incorrect information, I don't expect to be shrugged at and told that I am in the wrong. Ok, so I should have realised that they had given me duff information earlier and avoided getting the fine, but surely they should take some responsibility for the duff info? They also said via email that they had never had any problems with long stay parking and to ignore the board, hypocrits!!! Needless to say I will not be staying with them again. The staff are rude, ignorant and obtuse!!!!
And breathe...! So now I'm off up to Newcastle a bit earlier than I had anticipated due to the carpark machine munching £3.40 and spitting out the last coin, leaving me with a one hour stay instead of the 5 I had hoped for and glad to be moving on. The drive to Newcastle was reasonably pleasant and I could feel my mood lifting as I got closer to my friend Ann's home. It's a fairly long drive, but since I have been there 3 times now, I was fairly comfortable with the approach in and kind of new where I was going for a change. I reached Ann's in good time, but feeling tired after a seemingly long day and we chilled for a while with a cuppa and chat before adjourning to our rooms for a tinker on the laptop followed by sleep.
14th August - Oh my gosh the day of the Gang Bang!!! We set off for Glasgow, a good 3 hour+ drive and wondered what lay before us. Ann had never attended a party before and as I know from past experience she is not too good with group participation, so I do wonder how she will fair. We had between the 3 of us a good 15 requests to join us and a few more during the journey up there. I did tell Ann to accept any bookings, as history has told me as a rule only a third actually turn up, so we were still hoping for around 4 guys if not more. We got to the apartment which was well situated and reasonably nice. We would certainly stay there again and settled in. Lolo arrived and we all hugged and met for the first time. She is such a lovely lady. Very amazonian in stature being 5' 10" and curvy with it and yet she has the softest feminine voice. You are left in no doubt you are in the presents of a lady.
Just before the show got on the road MrSmiths arrived. He can be found on Adultworkforum and is a co-worker with lolo, as they sometimes work as a couple together. He is also a really lovely person and it didn't take very long before it felt like we had all known each other for ever for real and not just on the internet. At last the phone rang and one of the chaps that had booked via the phone on the way up to Glasgow arrived. For sometime he was our only guest and so that he did not feel like he was wasting his money, we started things off. The pictures of this poor man being molested by all three of us (kindly taken by MrSmiths) can be found on my Adultwork private gallery. There is one picture in particular that made us chortle, so I'll put it on here for you to see.
Soooo... our tour in Glasgow did not really hit it off the way we had imagined and my invite to dinner from an ex client/dear friend of mine was squashed, as his plans had been changed and he wasn't able to get back for the time we had. I was rather hoping the next day would prove to be more fruitfull. Having said that the party was quite fun and we all discovered how rigorous a work out you get with a healthy chap with aspergers. He got round all 3 of us twice to the point where we needed to take a break and told him that £150 for 2 hours serious 'work out' was very good value' now please put us down! Still he seemed happy enough and in retrospect it was a bit like having 15 guys there, but without the money.
The next day was much better. I met some really nice guys and had a lot of fun and this was topped with the dinner date going ahead after all. We had a lovely walk into town and past the set for the latest Brad Pitt film, where we saw lots of yellow cabs and people gawping with their mouths wide open at nothing much in particular (no actors present), then we looked for somewhere to eat. It would seam that that Scottish are in love with Italian food, as nearly all the restaurants were Italian, with a smattering of Chinese/thai. We finally plumped for TGI Fridays, which was good, as I had been drooling at the thought of the one opposite the hotel I was staying at in Leeds, but didn't go there as I was on my own. We had a really scrummy dinner and it was lovely catching up with my gorgeous Scottish friend, who as always was the perfect gentleman with a seriously bad sense of humour lol.
If I am honest, I think Belfast was the best part of the tour for me. Certainly it was the most lucrative. Being my third visit I have now established some regulars and saw 3 clients that I had met before, which was lovely. There were a couple that I had met in Temple Patrick that had tried to see me again, but I was either already booked or work got in the way, so hopefully I will see them the next time, as they were both lovely guys and I had looked forward to seeing them.
It was a nice little tootle and I arrived a little early, which was not a problem for the hotel and I went straight up to my room. I had 3 pre-bookings, 2 of which confirmed before and during my journey over there, but sadly the third one had vanished. I had a few calls on the day, but since I was feeling a little hungry and had not eaten since breakfast, which was fruit, I decided to find something to eat and settle down for the evening (it was gone 8pm by this time).
My first client was a gentlman I had chatted to on a couple of forums. I new that he liked to be forced a little and he particularly liked ladies wearing jeans or fishnet stockings. I went for the stockings option and that I would mix it up a bit with a little role play. I just happened to have my sexy police officer costume with me, so I put that on with some black boots. When he knocked on the door I stood back and as he was carrying a bottle of wine, I said, 'Thank you for attending the meeting reference your speeding, but I hope you're not going to try and bribe me with that wine!!!! Something like that would result in severe punishment! lol. I then had lots of fun forcing him to give me pleasure in abundance and a good time was had by all :)
My second encounter was with a gentleman who reminded me in looks of Bruce Forsyth (a fair bit younger mind). He was a really fun character and was very entertaining and what I love most is a man who enjoys what I do to him and he was awfully appreciative. I find that such a turn on and it makes me happy. We had lots of cuddles and spent some time chatting too. I love men that are young at heart and he certainly was.
I really do like working in Derby and I think when I have finished doing my tours of new places and discovery, I will put that down as a landmark to continue visiting. I may not have been overwhelmed with phone calls, but what you get here is quality and you can't beat that.
The next day I headed over to Manchester. A little concerned due to the news about the riots, but hoping that not being in the centre I would be fine. As it is I am pretty central still, but I've not had any real problems.
I think the riots did have a noted impact on my work. While in Manchester the phone was notably quiet and thankfully I had one pre-booking, otherwise I would have only had one booking for the whole two days. As it was I got on great with the pre-booking who unfortunately for him got let down by his 3rd lady in so many days and as we did get on very well, he asked to meet me for lunch the next day and have a second booking. Now, what can I tell you about this fellow? He looked a bit like Matthew Kelly in his younger days. Pretty fit for his years and lovely white whiskers, with a full head of hair to run your fingers through. He looked at least a decade younger than the age he said he was and had a great sense of humour. We (I think) enjoyed each others company equally, which led to some rather steamy sessions of fun. To be honest, I can't tell it any better than the man himself and he was kind enough to right a review on our experience, which can be found on Punternet. Here is the link for anyone interested enough to click on it. Punternet Report .
So... although a little disappointed at the lack of quantity during my time in Manchester, I was certainly not disappointed about the lack of quality. It was a fun time and relaxed, which is probably just as well with what was about to come around the corner!
Now when planning my tours, I don't do it haphazardly or without some form of research. I am predominantly looking for places that are discreet, offer secure parking and with easy access. It has little to with price or amazing food etc, these things are of minor importance to me. With this in mind, imagine my annoyance to find that the hotel I stayed at in Leeds did not just have a carpark across a very busy road, but it did not officially allow 24 hour parking and I had been given false information at worse and missed vital information at best by the staff at the hotel. So, having been armed with incorrect information and having 100 things on my mind, I do as instructed by them and wake up to a fine attached to my vehicle in the morning. Not being one to shy away from voicing my opinion I did mention it to the receptionist, who basically said I should have followed the instructions on the board. How am I supposed to do that from Worcester before arriving when deciding on where best to stay? He was adament it was my own fault, so I email their complaints section and get the same reply.
Now I don't know about you, but when I make a call, which is specific to car parking and am given incorrect information, I don't expect to be shrugged at and told that I am in the wrong. Ok, so I should have realised that they had given me duff information earlier and avoided getting the fine, but surely they should take some responsibility for the duff info? They also said via email that they had never had any problems with long stay parking and to ignore the board, hypocrits!!! Needless to say I will not be staying with them again. The staff are rude, ignorant and obtuse!!!!
And breathe...! So now I'm off up to Newcastle a bit earlier than I had anticipated due to the carpark machine munching £3.40 and spitting out the last coin, leaving me with a one hour stay instead of the 5 I had hoped for and glad to be moving on. The drive to Newcastle was reasonably pleasant and I could feel my mood lifting as I got closer to my friend Ann's home. It's a fairly long drive, but since I have been there 3 times now, I was fairly comfortable with the approach in and kind of new where I was going for a change. I reached Ann's in good time, but feeling tired after a seemingly long day and we chilled for a while with a cuppa and chat before adjourning to our rooms for a tinker on the laptop followed by sleep.
14th August - Oh my gosh the day of the Gang Bang!!! We set off for Glasgow, a good 3 hour+ drive and wondered what lay before us. Ann had never attended a party before and as I know from past experience she is not too good with group participation, so I do wonder how she will fair. We had between the 3 of us a good 15 requests to join us and a few more during the journey up there. I did tell Ann to accept any bookings, as history has told me as a rule only a third actually turn up, so we were still hoping for around 4 guys if not more. We got to the apartment which was well situated and reasonably nice. We would certainly stay there again and settled in. Lolo arrived and we all hugged and met for the first time. She is such a lovely lady. Very amazonian in stature being 5' 10" and curvy with it and yet she has the softest feminine voice. You are left in no doubt you are in the presents of a lady.
Just before the show got on the road MrSmiths arrived. He can be found on Adultworkforum and is a co-worker with lolo, as they sometimes work as a couple together. He is also a really lovely person and it didn't take very long before it felt like we had all known each other for ever for real and not just on the internet. At last the phone rang and one of the chaps that had booked via the phone on the way up to Glasgow arrived. For sometime he was our only guest and so that he did not feel like he was wasting his money, we started things off. The pictures of this poor man being molested by all three of us (kindly taken by MrSmiths) can be found on my Adultwork private gallery. There is one picture in particular that made us chortle, so I'll put it on here for you to see.
The cat's that got the cream! Puuurrrrrr
The next day I had my first day back in glasgow working solo. I'm not going to lie to you. Work was pretty thin on the ground and I only secured two bookings, one of which was arranged in advance through Adultwork. I can't say that it was a total flop though, as the men that I met were both lovely and I had such an enjoyable time with them. I really would like to return if not only to see them again. Plus the fact that this was a sunday and I do know it is harder for guys to get away on this day.
The booking that had been arranged beforehand was a bit of a treat for me, as the chap I met was not what I would call strictly dominant, but he certainly new what he wanted and I love a confident man in the bedroom. He told me what he wanted and I gave it with gusto. He talked dirty to me, talking about filthy scenarios for us to play in and my imagination devoured it and I responded accordingly. I think this is the way to get dirty talk out of me, as left to start things off and I'll just get shy and uncharacteristically quiet. If you would like to read more about this encounter, you are welcome to read the Field Report he wrote about me HERE. Please note, the report does say that I swallowed and this is a mistake. He may not of noticed that I did actually deposit the evidence into a wetwipe, but I did CIM. I do this at discretion and felt more than comfortable doing this with him, as from discussion I new he was particular with who he met and was a clean and presentable young man.
From Belfast SassyAnn and I travelled across to Belfast on the ferry. I can't tell you how much more I enjoy touring when I can drive, so the ferry was a big bonus for me. I don't know how ladies tour for more than a couple of days with 20kg of their world with them and that is what I carry with me; Everything but the kitchen sink! lol. The ferry out was on very calm waters and I had no signs of sea sickness (thank goodness), getting on and off was reasonably hassle free and it wasn't long before we reached our apartment. This time I had an apartment that had been recommended to me and we were really pleased with it. It was very modern, spacious and anonymous. It tooks us a while to work out the door buzzer to get us in, but needless to say by the last day we had got it sussed lol. Still at least there will be no problems for the next time.
If I am honest, I think Belfast was the best part of the tour for me. Certainly it was the most lucrative. Being my third visit I have now established some regulars and saw 3 clients that I had met before, which was lovely. There were a couple that I had met in Temple Patrick that had tried to see me again, but I was either already booked or work got in the way, so hopefully I will see them the next time, as they were both lovely guys and I had looked forward to seeing them.
Despite being in Belfast for 3 days, I just didn't have a chance to do anything other than work, in fact it was pretty flat out (by my standards) and I was rather exhausted by the end of it. I will definitely be going back and at the moment am looking at January/February. Some of the men that I met were shockingly good looking and amazing personalities. There are times when I forget that it is a job and completely get carried away with the moment. I think there have been moments like that right through the tour, but the majority of Belfast was like that. Recollecting my time so far puts such a smile on my face, it's unreal!
From Belfast we travelled down to Dublin, via Belfast town, where we popped over to the bank to deposit our ill gotten gains and pick up some euros for the toll roads. I was a little disappointed to have such a short time to be in the centre, as I love the shops there and the archeology come to think of it. The buildings are magnificent and I mean the new and old build. They must have some amazing acheologists in this Country. The trip to Dublin was relatively easy, as it is pretty straight all the way. We kind of new when we had gone across when the signs changed from miles to Km's, but otherwise there was no great sign welcoming you into Ireland as such, more of a welcome via toll lol.
We got a little lost when we got there, but it was difficult to concentrate on the roads with all the hustle and bustle of a Friday in Dublin. Again the buildings were very majestic and beautiful, breathtaking even and I discovered where I tend to look up at things, Ann tends to look down, which is why she new where we were going and I didn't lol. She saw the signs written on the road! We did get a little lost as 'Dublin 4' is rather vague and we had no street name. I didn't realise my tomtom would work in Ireland, so had written all the important instructions on a piece of paper, but somehow my satnav had stayed active in it's pouch and we could hear it giving me instructions in the glove department, which is when I twigged it was recognising the area. With this we stopped the car, rang the apartment owners and got clearer instructions leading us in. Once we had done this we were there in a matter of moments.
The apartment turned out to be more of a cottage and was very cosy. Both the rooms were spacious, although there had been a few mistakes either in booking or on their side, but we managed to get round that. I think the most significant thing about Dublin is the cost! It's so expensive over there. We could not use our dongles, so ended up buying internet connnection at a cost of 25 euros for 2 days! We got a takeaway that cost us 30 euros at which point I duly made a visit to Tesco and managed to make us a spagettie bolognaise for under 7 euros (just as well I can cook!). I now understand why the rates are that much higher over there. We also discovered that the rate of exchange is quite poor, but I would recommend using the ferry to change cash back, as I got a full £19 more back than if I had gone to the post office back in England.
I took 5 bookings over 1 and a half days, so pretty average, but not bad and saw one chap twice, which was nice. Everyone I saw asked me to return, so I would say as a dummy run it was pretty successful, especially when you consider that we were there over a weekend, which is my quietest time back at home.
Now... it has been said that I can be a little bossy. I had agreed with Ann that we had to leave promptly at 10.15am Sunday morning, in order to get to the ferry in Belfast in plenty of time. I was up promptly at 7am (which is normal for me) and then woke Ann up at 8am (which is not normal for her). We both needed to pack and transfer the things we needed for our one night stop in Carlisle, so we could leave the rest in the vehicle over night. Ann did get up (bless her this is not easy, as she is a night owl) and ate breakfast, had a shower and I'm getting slightly agitated, as I'm quite methodical in the way I do things, ie, pack first, shower, eat, as I can do without food if I run out of time, but I need my things organised and me not to be smelly. So, I'm totally unnecessarily irritated by reverse behaviour in Ann who then goes and packs her things. Thinking time was running out, I got get the vehicle and bring it round to the front in order to start loading up. Ann has packed by now and is in her room. I'm wondering why she is in her room and see the big hand has gone past the quarter past and thinking 'what the hell is she doing now!' she says she is sorting out her location on Adult work, which is reasonable enough, but nope, I'm stresssed!! 'What do you mean! Why are you doing that now, we are already late!!!!!'. Ann pops out of her room looking all confused and bemused at being ticked off by me and says... 'but it's only 9.30am!'.
Whoops! I look at my watch, ahhh, umm... oops! sorry! We then break up laughing as my bossiness has hit new records! but hey I got Ann organised and even she was shocked at how well she had done and we decide we might as well start out now and then the pressure is off with regards to possibly being late. The roads were pretty clear with it being a Sunday and we made it in good time. Ann was able to have a nap due to having my satnav lead the way again and I even managed to avoid one of the tolls. We had both enjoyed our time in Dublin and agreed that we would go back again. I think Dublin particularly appreciated Ann there, which was great, as she has had a few problems with advertising and perhaps missed out on work in a few of the places we have stayed. It was nice to see her perk up and she had met some lovely guys, that also wanted to see her again. Yay for Dublin!
It seemed like we had spent most of Sunday travelling, having started out at 9.30am, we finally arrived in Carlisle at around 7pm. I had an 8pm booking arranged for one hour through Adultwork, so came straight up to my room and had a shower in preperation. I already new what I was going to wear and quickly got ready, which was good as my client was 20 mins early. I did have to ask him to wait for 10 mins, as my hair was still wet, but it didn't take long to finish the finer details.
My client was absolutely delicious! A little nervous and I think it would be fair to say paranoid? But once he had relaxed a little we had a really sexy time together and he couldn't have made me feel more desirable if he tried. Of course I lapped it up, as it's so nice to be made to feel attractive and appreciated and we got on really well. I would love to see him again sometime, so I hope he meant it when he said he would like me to return.
After that I got showered and met up with Ann and we walked across to an Indian Restaurant and treated ourselves. This was the first meal out we had together during the tour and it was lovely to just relax and enjoy the moment, although for some reason where the smell of the food made me feel really hungry I just didn't have the appetite I thought I would have, so after eating around a quarter of it, I stopped and asked for a doggie bag.
This leads me on to today. It's Monday morning in Carlisle, just gone 8am and I've already been up over an hour. No bookings as yet for this morning, but I'm seriously tempted to escape and go into town, as I know there is a lovely little habidashery there, with lots of unique bits and pieces I can use for my creative side (some of you will know what that is). We're not planning to leave for Newcastle until 12am, so I nice start to the day.
Friday, 5 August 2011
Adultwork Photo Competition
Ok, so it is a really naff title this time round, but I thought what the hell, it might be fun to dress up. The title is 'School of Cock!'.
I have submitted my entry this evening (Friday) and really would appreciate it if you could vote for me. Please use this LINK to find my entry.
Update* My original submission was taken down, despite two other submissions not showing their labels or having one at all! Talk about feeling picked on! Anyway, I have resubmitted and put the offending photo's on my open gallery on AW instead. Please, if you voted for me before, could you re-submit your vote, as I only have 20 now and I had around 144 before it got took down.
Many thanks x
I hope you do like them enough to give me a 10 x
Kate x
Here is a taster...
I have submitted my entry this evening (Friday) and really would appreciate it if you could vote for me. Please use this LINK to find my entry.
Update* My original submission was taken down, despite two other submissions not showing their labels or having one at all! Talk about feeling picked on! Anyway, I have resubmitted and put the offending photo's on my open gallery on AW instead. Please, if you voted for me before, could you re-submit your vote, as I only have 20 now and I had around 144 before it got took down.
Many thanks x
I hope you do like them enough to give me a 10 x
Kate x
Here is a taster...
Wednesday, 27 July 2011
Let's make it more desirable!
Gosh being self employed brings its twists and turns and dilemmas. It seems this month has been one for decision making and I have made yet another one!
As from today I have decided to be very generous (it's true!) and reach a compromise, so that hopefully if you can make time you will take advantage of the rates to go with the time. What am I blathering on about you are wondering?
My beautiful apartment is great to use during the day time in the week, as generally I'm one of the only person there. This is wonderful with regards to discretion and not upsetting any of the other residents. However, from around 5pm onward the carpark starts to fill up and everyone is coming back home from their hard days work. Personally I don't feel so comfortable about using the apartment to meet someone for half an hour or even an hour at this time, as I would be returning after going home and not sleeping there, so popping in and having a visitor, then popping off again, looks a bit odd. If I'm given enough notice and I try and get there an hour or two earlier, so that it doesn't look like I have gone there fleetingly, so I'm actually spending the best part of the evening there.
My decision is that from now on during the evening and the weekends I am only open to bookings that are of 2 hours or more duration. This makes the booking a lot more worthwhile, a more natural amount of time to be spending with a visitorm therefore more discreet and worth the trip etc. However, as this is my choice and perhaps not something you would normally do, or you may decide that the time frame is a little too long for you (which would be your choice) I am lowering my rates during those time periods.
Normally 2 hours for an incall equals £240 and this will still apply during the day and during tours (unless stated otherwise) but after 6pm in the evening and Saturday and Sunday it will now be reduced to £200. If you would like longer or to extend it will be £100 extra for each hour, with over night booking rates remaining the same as always.
Bearing in mind I normally charge £180 for an hour and a half, this is a really good offer and I do hope that some of my regulars who would like to spend more time with me, but unable to justify paying £240 would like to take advantage of it. Please give me as much notice as possible when booking for these times. The day before is preferable where possible, or even longer.
Please note that outcalls remain the same, as I have no problem keeping my minimum booking time of one hour (or half an hour within Worcester). This offer does not apply to outcalls.
I think that is enough decision making for one month lol.
I'm in Heathrow at the moment, after arriving yesterday afternoon. I had a great time yesterday and am looking forward to what today will bring.
Have fun, kate x
As from today I have decided to be very generous (it's true!) and reach a compromise, so that hopefully if you can make time you will take advantage of the rates to go with the time. What am I blathering on about you are wondering?
My beautiful apartment is great to use during the day time in the week, as generally I'm one of the only person there. This is wonderful with regards to discretion and not upsetting any of the other residents. However, from around 5pm onward the carpark starts to fill up and everyone is coming back home from their hard days work. Personally I don't feel so comfortable about using the apartment to meet someone for half an hour or even an hour at this time, as I would be returning after going home and not sleeping there, so popping in and having a visitor, then popping off again, looks a bit odd. If I'm given enough notice and I try and get there an hour or two earlier, so that it doesn't look like I have gone there fleetingly, so I'm actually spending the best part of the evening there.
My decision is that from now on during the evening and the weekends I am only open to bookings that are of 2 hours or more duration. This makes the booking a lot more worthwhile, a more natural amount of time to be spending with a visitorm therefore more discreet and worth the trip etc. However, as this is my choice and perhaps not something you would normally do, or you may decide that the time frame is a little too long for you (which would be your choice) I am lowering my rates during those time periods.
Normally 2 hours for an incall equals £240 and this will still apply during the day and during tours (unless stated otherwise) but after 6pm in the evening and Saturday and Sunday it will now be reduced to £200. If you would like longer or to extend it will be £100 extra for each hour, with over night booking rates remaining the same as always.
Bearing in mind I normally charge £180 for an hour and a half, this is a really good offer and I do hope that some of my regulars who would like to spend more time with me, but unable to justify paying £240 would like to take advantage of it. Please give me as much notice as possible when booking for these times. The day before is preferable where possible, or even longer.
Please note that outcalls remain the same, as I have no problem keeping my minimum booking time of one hour (or half an hour within Worcester). This offer does not apply to outcalls.
I think that is enough decision making for one month lol.
I'm in Heathrow at the moment, after arriving yesterday afternoon. I had a great time yesterday and am looking forward to what today will bring.
Have fun, kate x
Sunday, 24 July 2011
New Apartment - July 2011
It's a beautifully sunny day outside and I'm feeling rather happy. It's 10.33am on a Sunday morning and I've already put a load of washing on the line, put another load in and put away 2 loads from yesterday. There is something about sunshine that penetrates the heart and makes you feel sunny on the inside too.
Having had the apartment now for 3 months, I suppose I'm going to have to stop thinking of it as the 'new place' I have to say that I am still in love with it though. I love the space, I love that I know where everything is. I love that I can buy myself little treats to look forward to while I'm there and not have to hide them so a certain teenager doesn't have them first, I love the presentation I can put into it, in order to give you the best experience possible and I love the calm and beautiful surroundings it offers.
However it seems that when I was buying furnishings to fill it with I may have overlooked a potential problem that has become a real problem. I have 2 beautiful kingsize beds. Both are firm and comfortable and generally work very well for the job in hand. They don't squeak (I'm the one doing that) and they don't move or have any other annoying habits, but... they just are not very weight bearing. The slats are held in place by little plastic pockets and on 3 occassions now, when a gentleman has either sat down, or rolled to the side of the bed they have been pushed out of the pockets, creating an all mighty bang and the mattress to fall through.
Admittedly on all occassions it was not difficult for the gentleman to rectify the problem and we maintained to stay more centrally based on the bed, using the metal spine to take our weight, but this is very embarrasing and very noisy, which is really the crux of the problem. I don't want anything that is going to alert the neighbours to what is happening or to be concerned. Thankfully the times that it has happened, I don't think anyone else was around, but you never know and it only takes one person to say something for conspiracy to start.
Solutions... I have asked for suggestions to put this right from other ladies and they did try their best bless them. One lady suggested stacking books under the bed and yes I can see how that would work, but I'm on the top floor and that is going to be a lot of lugging and after creating the perfect setting for my seduction, I'm just not happy with the idea of anything that looks 'make do'. Another suggestion was to put the mattress on the floor. Yes that would probably work, accept again I'm ruining my lovely room, I'm then basically telling someone they are fat, so they can't get on the bed (good ice breaker) and potentially going to do my back in by lifting the mattress, as I'm an occasional sufferer of sciatica. The last and best idea was to get a piece of wood cut to fit over the frame of the bed to take some of the strain. This would possibly work, but then I worry about it moving about during play and generally being a pain in the arse.
In all honesty none of the solutions really work for me, so unless anyone can think of a better more suitable one then I have decided to impose a weight restriction to visitors for incalls. I'm not quite sure what weight this should be, but am guessing at around 17 stone. I understand that taller men are likely to weigh more and therefore the weight be better distributed, so I don't want to set this in stone (boom boom), but to please think before you book. If you have been on modern beds before and had this problem, please do not book me for an incall. If you have never had this problem then it is not likely to be a concern.
Am I saying that I won't see people over 17 stone? Absolutely not! I have no problem with weight at all. If you would like me to come visit you, that is fine. If you can't provide an outcall location then we can meet in a hotel or see me during my tour, as I won't have to worry about my beds then. Just please be honest and let me know when you are booking that we will have to make alternative arrangements.
Gosh I feel awful having to write that, but I do really love the apartment and I don't want to lose it, so anything that draws attention to me and what I am doing is not good, let alone the life of the beds I have bought, which are really nice. Let's face it, I can't work without them and I don't want to have to replace them as yet. Of course if the time comes when I do have to replace one, I will put much more consideration into the base of the bed and make sure it is weight bearing.
Let's find something more cheerful to talk about. I'm off on Tuesday for my first tour to Heathrow. I changed my registration details on Adultwork over to Heathrow yesterday, as I am not working now prior to the tour and the phone started ringing almost immediately with some great offers, but unfortunately I had to decline them all, as I'm not there yet. I quickly changed the heading to show my dates, which seems to have done the trick, but I am really excited about going there now, especially with abstaining from sex until the tour.
In the mean time I have been tidying and cleaning pending an inspection (an official one this time) and hope everything looks nice and fresh. At home I have been doing the same, as I don't like leaving the house in a mess, especially as I have a messy teenager at home to create more mess. I have blackberries growing in my garden (yes it is a little out of hand) but I have picked some lovely ripe ones and bought some apples with the intention of making a blackberry and apple pie and I have picked some damsons, which I will make some damson jam with today. I've also bought a lovely joint of pork and am determined to get some nice crackling out of it. It's not something I have had the greatest of success with before, but I have had some top tips from the adultworkforum on how to get it just right, so I will be putting it to the test.
That's it for now. I don't want to waste my day on the computer, as it is so nice outside and who knows how long it will last for. For those of you going on holiday with the family over the next 6 weeks have a lovely time, enjoy your children while you can. They grow up far too quickly and enjoy the time away from work. I will look forward to seeing you when you are able to see me and don't forget to use sun cream.
Kate x
Having had the apartment now for 3 months, I suppose I'm going to have to stop thinking of it as the 'new place' I have to say that I am still in love with it though. I love the space, I love that I know where everything is. I love that I can buy myself little treats to look forward to while I'm there and not have to hide them so a certain teenager doesn't have them first, I love the presentation I can put into it, in order to give you the best experience possible and I love the calm and beautiful surroundings it offers.
However it seems that when I was buying furnishings to fill it with I may have overlooked a potential problem that has become a real problem. I have 2 beautiful kingsize beds. Both are firm and comfortable and generally work very well for the job in hand. They don't squeak (I'm the one doing that) and they don't move or have any other annoying habits, but... they just are not very weight bearing. The slats are held in place by little plastic pockets and on 3 occassions now, when a gentleman has either sat down, or rolled to the side of the bed they have been pushed out of the pockets, creating an all mighty bang and the mattress to fall through.
Admittedly on all occassions it was not difficult for the gentleman to rectify the problem and we maintained to stay more centrally based on the bed, using the metal spine to take our weight, but this is very embarrasing and very noisy, which is really the crux of the problem. I don't want anything that is going to alert the neighbours to what is happening or to be concerned. Thankfully the times that it has happened, I don't think anyone else was around, but you never know and it only takes one person to say something for conspiracy to start.
Solutions... I have asked for suggestions to put this right from other ladies and they did try their best bless them. One lady suggested stacking books under the bed and yes I can see how that would work, but I'm on the top floor and that is going to be a lot of lugging and after creating the perfect setting for my seduction, I'm just not happy with the idea of anything that looks 'make do'. Another suggestion was to put the mattress on the floor. Yes that would probably work, accept again I'm ruining my lovely room, I'm then basically telling someone they are fat, so they can't get on the bed (good ice breaker) and potentially going to do my back in by lifting the mattress, as I'm an occasional sufferer of sciatica. The last and best idea was to get a piece of wood cut to fit over the frame of the bed to take some of the strain. This would possibly work, but then I worry about it moving about during play and generally being a pain in the arse.
In all honesty none of the solutions really work for me, so unless anyone can think of a better more suitable one then I have decided to impose a weight restriction to visitors for incalls. I'm not quite sure what weight this should be, but am guessing at around 17 stone. I understand that taller men are likely to weigh more and therefore the weight be better distributed, so I don't want to set this in stone (boom boom), but to please think before you book. If you have been on modern beds before and had this problem, please do not book me for an incall. If you have never had this problem then it is not likely to be a concern.
Am I saying that I won't see people over 17 stone? Absolutely not! I have no problem with weight at all. If you would like me to come visit you, that is fine. If you can't provide an outcall location then we can meet in a hotel or see me during my tour, as I won't have to worry about my beds then. Just please be honest and let me know when you are booking that we will have to make alternative arrangements.
Gosh I feel awful having to write that, but I do really love the apartment and I don't want to lose it, so anything that draws attention to me and what I am doing is not good, let alone the life of the beds I have bought, which are really nice. Let's face it, I can't work without them and I don't want to have to replace them as yet. Of course if the time comes when I do have to replace one, I will put much more consideration into the base of the bed and make sure it is weight bearing.
Let's find something more cheerful to talk about. I'm off on Tuesday for my first tour to Heathrow. I changed my registration details on Adultwork over to Heathrow yesterday, as I am not working now prior to the tour and the phone started ringing almost immediately with some great offers, but unfortunately I had to decline them all, as I'm not there yet. I quickly changed the heading to show my dates, which seems to have done the trick, but I am really excited about going there now, especially with abstaining from sex until the tour.
In the mean time I have been tidying and cleaning pending an inspection (an official one this time) and hope everything looks nice and fresh. At home I have been doing the same, as I don't like leaving the house in a mess, especially as I have a messy teenager at home to create more mess. I have blackberries growing in my garden (yes it is a little out of hand) but I have picked some lovely ripe ones and bought some apples with the intention of making a blackberry and apple pie and I have picked some damsons, which I will make some damson jam with today. I've also bought a lovely joint of pork and am determined to get some nice crackling out of it. It's not something I have had the greatest of success with before, but I have had some top tips from the adultworkforum on how to get it just right, so I will be putting it to the test.
That's it for now. I don't want to waste my day on the computer, as it is so nice outside and who knows how long it will last for. For those of you going on holiday with the family over the next 6 weeks have a lovely time, enjoy your children while you can. They grow up far too quickly and enjoy the time away from work. I will look forward to seeing you when you are able to see me and don't forget to use sun cream.
Kate x
Sunday, 10 July 2011
What turns me on?
I often get asked this along with what is my favourite position and what do I like to wear etc. Up until now I have been reticent to comment, as I am a true lover of variety, but... for the moment at least, I have come to realise that I do have some favourite things that really turn me on, so I thought I would share them with you and this is especially for those that care to visit me after reading my blogs. I know there are a few of you.
So... what first?
If you tell me I can wear anything I want, I find that 8 times out of 10 I will reach for my underbust corset. I love it because I can wear it with body stocking dresses, bodystockings matching underwear and various other garments that compliment it and serve to make lots of different looks. I love the way it makes me feel, the shape it gives me and the fact that it seems to essentiate my breasts. I of course, team this up with stockings and suspenders.
At this point I might add that I hate hold ups. I don't know why exactly, but I do. I find it very hard to find pretty stockings of good quality and due to being quite tall, as well as shapely I have to buy 'large' ones, which narrows down my choice further. I'm not asking you to buy me them, but if you do come across a lovely pair of stockings and get the impulse to buy me them, well I would be most delighted lol. I'd also like to know where you bought them from, so I can replenish stocks if I really like them.
If it is a dress that I am wearing due to meeting you for a meal or doing an outcall, then I love to wear wrap around dresses. I find that they can look rather demure at first sight and elegant, but then when you pull the cord in the privacy of your bedroom, they instantly fall back to reveal either lingerie or a sexy bra set with of course the stockings and suspenders to compliment. I love that moment of the reveal, with the eyes of an excited on looker feasting on my curves and devouring the thought of what they will do next with me. Such a turn on!
What next? Kissing! I can not tell you how important a good kiss is. I can be looking at a total stranger one minute, who seems pleasant enough and polite etc, but the moment our lips touch and start our sexual journey together I can tell if we are going to connect or not and thankfully I have met some amazing kissers. I met a lovely gentleman on Friday who was really well dressed, very presentable and the fabrics to his clothes were of very high quality. When we kissed I new we were going to have a good time together and towards the end of our time together I felt the need to comment on his lovely kisses. I thought he must have been told this before, but he said I was the first to tell him. I was quite surprised. What a shame that he had managed to go through half of his life without knowing? Why do people find it so hard to compliment each other? I hope he did not think I was saying it just to be nice, or because I want him to come back etc. I hope he is able to take the compliment for what it was, which was geniune.
What do I like in a kiss? I suppose this is very personal and people differ depending on the shape of their mouth and what they are used to, but for me it is tender soft kisses, lip to lip first. Then lingering a little longer involving the tongue, just gently teasing and touching through further soft kisses. Then moving on to more passionate kisses, with a firmer more directed kiss and deeper tongue. This alone can make me wet and wanting more. Follow this through with sucking my nipple and I'm in heaven!
Kissing having started the sexual juices off what next? Well this can vary on mood and who I am with, but I love either giving or recieving oral. Reverse oral done well is amazing and I have been very fortunate to meet a lot of men that adore licking me out and I have to admit that I love it to death. However, there are a few things that can take me from exctacy to hitting the ceiling with orgasms (at which point I would really appreciate it if you could remind me to keep quiet). This can be done in 2 ways. While you are licking my clit, gently insert a finger into my pussy and rub the tip of your finger gently but rapidly over my g-spot. This makes me cum quite strongly and feels amazing!!!!
The second way is to finger me in the way described above, but to make use of my magic wand. Now this is a device that I didn't get on with too well when I first got it. I just couldn't get the stimulus I needed with it when playing alone. However, I discovered that if it is used on me with a compliant gentleman and a willing finger or two I literally go through the roof with the build up of the most powerful orgasm I have ever had and the vital component to this is your finger/s. It just does not work unless you are there with me and I believe that having a man watch me cum like that is also part of the recipe for this powerful orgasm. Needless to say I am delighted when I suggest we use this device and the suggestion is agreed to.
Please be gentle with me for a few seconds after the orgasm though, as I do need to get my nails back out of the ceiling before I can continue lol. It really is that strong. Having said that, it does leave me wanting to re-dress the balance and I'm more than ready to help you achieve your orgasm.
For those that don't care for penetration. I have a favourite way to bring things to a close. I love it when you are kneeling up on your knees (on the bed) and I position myself so my face is next to or under your cock and my body is lying in front of you. If you are beautifully trimmed or shaved then I will take great pleasure in teasing and playing with your balls and looking up at you as I take your cock in my mouth and work my magic. Then if you are able to concentrate enough, I would love for you to gently massage my clit while I take you deep in my mouth until eventually you have to spurt your gorgeous cum all over my breasts or across my mouth and cover my body. I then like to gently cover your cock either with my hands or mouth, very, very gently massaging and bringing you back down, still giving you eye contact and enjoying every second of having my trophy over me, that tells me you have enjoyed yourself, just as much as I have.
Lastly, once we have had a quick clean up (wet wipes, no need to leave the bed) we can have a snuggle, a little chat about whatever takes our fancy and sweet little kisses that tell either that we are enjoying each others company and on a physical high. I love that, I love how close I can feel to someone who not much before was a total stranger, or better still, someone I have met before and continue to enjoy and look forward to seeing. Each time is slightly different and enjoyable, but the friendship becomes stronger too and affection becomes part of the mix.
So, there you have it. I'm still not going into detail about my favourite positions for penetration, as that does still very much vary for me, but orally I do have my favourite things to do, but as always I will believe that variety is the spice of life, so if these things do not appeal to you, then show me your way and you never know, it might become my way too!
Finally, can I say thank you to those that have spoilt me by buying me perfume. For the moment I am well stocked, but there is some amazing coco chanel bubble bath/shower gel, body creams and soaps that are equally alluring to me and where I would never expect anything. I would be delighted if you wanted to treat me with any of them. No chocolates please, I'm very conscious of having put a few extra pounds on recently and they don't help lol. Red wine? Hmmm... well ok if you insist lol.
I'll be in Worcester now for the best part of this month, although I'm going to be touring Heathrow on the 26th July for 3 and a half days and August is a huge touring month. Please check the dates and locations out on my website http://www.curvaceouskate.escort-site.com/ or on adultwork. Touring starts on the 9th August in Derby and includes Scotland and Ireland.
Kate x
So... what first?
If you tell me I can wear anything I want, I find that 8 times out of 10 I will reach for my underbust corset. I love it because I can wear it with body stocking dresses, bodystockings matching underwear and various other garments that compliment it and serve to make lots of different looks. I love the way it makes me feel, the shape it gives me and the fact that it seems to essentiate my breasts. I of course, team this up with stockings and suspenders.
At this point I might add that I hate hold ups. I don't know why exactly, but I do. I find it very hard to find pretty stockings of good quality and due to being quite tall, as well as shapely I have to buy 'large' ones, which narrows down my choice further. I'm not asking you to buy me them, but if you do come across a lovely pair of stockings and get the impulse to buy me them, well I would be most delighted lol. I'd also like to know where you bought them from, so I can replenish stocks if I really like them.
If it is a dress that I am wearing due to meeting you for a meal or doing an outcall, then I love to wear wrap around dresses. I find that they can look rather demure at first sight and elegant, but then when you pull the cord in the privacy of your bedroom, they instantly fall back to reveal either lingerie or a sexy bra set with of course the stockings and suspenders to compliment. I love that moment of the reveal, with the eyes of an excited on looker feasting on my curves and devouring the thought of what they will do next with me. Such a turn on!
What next? Kissing! I can not tell you how important a good kiss is. I can be looking at a total stranger one minute, who seems pleasant enough and polite etc, but the moment our lips touch and start our sexual journey together I can tell if we are going to connect or not and thankfully I have met some amazing kissers. I met a lovely gentleman on Friday who was really well dressed, very presentable and the fabrics to his clothes were of very high quality. When we kissed I new we were going to have a good time together and towards the end of our time together I felt the need to comment on his lovely kisses. I thought he must have been told this before, but he said I was the first to tell him. I was quite surprised. What a shame that he had managed to go through half of his life without knowing? Why do people find it so hard to compliment each other? I hope he did not think I was saying it just to be nice, or because I want him to come back etc. I hope he is able to take the compliment for what it was, which was geniune.
What do I like in a kiss? I suppose this is very personal and people differ depending on the shape of their mouth and what they are used to, but for me it is tender soft kisses, lip to lip first. Then lingering a little longer involving the tongue, just gently teasing and touching through further soft kisses. Then moving on to more passionate kisses, with a firmer more directed kiss and deeper tongue. This alone can make me wet and wanting more. Follow this through with sucking my nipple and I'm in heaven!
Kissing having started the sexual juices off what next? Well this can vary on mood and who I am with, but I love either giving or recieving oral. Reverse oral done well is amazing and I have been very fortunate to meet a lot of men that adore licking me out and I have to admit that I love it to death. However, there are a few things that can take me from exctacy to hitting the ceiling with orgasms (at which point I would really appreciate it if you could remind me to keep quiet). This can be done in 2 ways. While you are licking my clit, gently insert a finger into my pussy and rub the tip of your finger gently but rapidly over my g-spot. This makes me cum quite strongly and feels amazing!!!!
The second way is to finger me in the way described above, but to make use of my magic wand. Now this is a device that I didn't get on with too well when I first got it. I just couldn't get the stimulus I needed with it when playing alone. However, I discovered that if it is used on me with a compliant gentleman and a willing finger or two I literally go through the roof with the build up of the most powerful orgasm I have ever had and the vital component to this is your finger/s. It just does not work unless you are there with me and I believe that having a man watch me cum like that is also part of the recipe for this powerful orgasm. Needless to say I am delighted when I suggest we use this device and the suggestion is agreed to.
Please be gentle with me for a few seconds after the orgasm though, as I do need to get my nails back out of the ceiling before I can continue lol. It really is that strong. Having said that, it does leave me wanting to re-dress the balance and I'm more than ready to help you achieve your orgasm.
For those that don't care for penetration. I have a favourite way to bring things to a close. I love it when you are kneeling up on your knees (on the bed) and I position myself so my face is next to or under your cock and my body is lying in front of you. If you are beautifully trimmed or shaved then I will take great pleasure in teasing and playing with your balls and looking up at you as I take your cock in my mouth and work my magic. Then if you are able to concentrate enough, I would love for you to gently massage my clit while I take you deep in my mouth until eventually you have to spurt your gorgeous cum all over my breasts or across my mouth and cover my body. I then like to gently cover your cock either with my hands or mouth, very, very gently massaging and bringing you back down, still giving you eye contact and enjoying every second of having my trophy over me, that tells me you have enjoyed yourself, just as much as I have.
Lastly, once we have had a quick clean up (wet wipes, no need to leave the bed) we can have a snuggle, a little chat about whatever takes our fancy and sweet little kisses that tell either that we are enjoying each others company and on a physical high. I love that, I love how close I can feel to someone who not much before was a total stranger, or better still, someone I have met before and continue to enjoy and look forward to seeing. Each time is slightly different and enjoyable, but the friendship becomes stronger too and affection becomes part of the mix.
So, there you have it. I'm still not going into detail about my favourite positions for penetration, as that does still very much vary for me, but orally I do have my favourite things to do, but as always I will believe that variety is the spice of life, so if these things do not appeal to you, then show me your way and you never know, it might become my way too!
Finally, can I say thank you to those that have spoilt me by buying me perfume. For the moment I am well stocked, but there is some amazing coco chanel bubble bath/shower gel, body creams and soaps that are equally alluring to me and where I would never expect anything. I would be delighted if you wanted to treat me with any of them. No chocolates please, I'm very conscious of having put a few extra pounds on recently and they don't help lol. Red wine? Hmmm... well ok if you insist lol.
I'll be in Worcester now for the best part of this month, although I'm going to be touring Heathrow on the 26th July for 3 and a half days and August is a huge touring month. Please check the dates and locations out on my website http://www.curvaceouskate.escort-site.com/ or on adultwork. Touring starts on the 9th August in Derby and includes Scotland and Ireland.
Kate x
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