Tuesday 13 December 2011

December 2011

It's been a busy month so far and one with quite a few highlights I'm glad to say.

Manchester

I drove over to Manchester on the 6th and checked in to a lovely spacious room.  It wasn't a hotel at the top end of the scale, but it was clean, tidy and had everything I needed for a pleasant stay and a good free carpark.

After a fairly slow start due to my room not being ready, I finally got in, unpacked what I needed, turned the telly on and took a shower.  Feeling refreshed I lay on the bed for a while and turned on my laptop.  Not long after I get a call from my 6pm date to say all is going as planned.  The time seemed to pass so quickly, which I suppose it does when you are feeling content.  What seemed just a few moments later I here a knock at the door and my friend for the evening arrives.  He is dressed impressively with a long black coat that looked both warm and quality and was wearing a suit underneath.

We chatted for a little while, embraced and got ready to go back outside into the winter chill and discover the Christmas Market.  The weather had been raining throughout the day intermitantly and had at points even hailed, so we were very lucky at worst to have had a light drizzle throughout the evening.  The market had a great atmosphere and it was lovely to see all the little stalls and crafts that were being sold.  I particularly liked some black and white photographs that were being sold by the photographer herself.  They were all taken of Manchester from different view points, some of which were panaramic and some close up of shapes within buildings. 

Before leaving we moved over to China town and shared a lovely Chinese meal together.  I have to say I was not being easy to please, as I am still trying to lose weight and didn't want to gain any if I could help it.  Chinese food is not known for it's low calories.  Despite my dismissal of what probably seemed like most of the menu we finally plumped for 2 courses to share, had some steamed vegetables and my friend had some fried rice.  It was of course absolutely scrumptious!

Once we had enjoyed savouring the tastes of China we strolled back to the hotel and a whole new dimension to the evening began.  Needless to say (I think I can talk for him too) we both had a fantastic evening together and it was a wonderful experience to share.

He did ask me if I will go back to Manchester and I think I would be a fool not to.  Don't you?

Halifax

I spent 3 days in Halifax.  I had if I am honest (which I am) a very quiet time in Halifax, which was disappointing, as like everyone else I do have Christmas presents to buy and I can't start doing that until I have earned enough to pay the bills, so for this reason I was rather disappointed.  However, I was very pleasantly surprised by the gentleman who I did see.  I would say (without having asked) that they were all between their late 20s and early 30s.  Now I'm not saying I don't see young guys at home sometimes, but most of the time I would say they are between mid 40s to mid 50s, so this was a rather nice change of scene if you like and what nade it even better, is how much they seemed to appreciate my oral skills.  In fact they made me feel like I was some kind of 'wonder woman' and I loved it!!!  I so love to be desired and that is exactly what they were doing and they were young and fit and they were desiring ME!!!!

As you can see I now have the quandry of do I go back (as once again I was asked to) and possibly not do so well financially, but perhaps have an absolutely hum dinger of a time again?  There was also the point that a very good friend of mine lives there *Emily of Halifax*.  She is a tiny little Pippa doll in size.  I must be twice her size, but she has the biggest heart I have ever known and I love being around her.  We managed to find time to take lunch together and have a girls night out, which was lovely.

Leeds

I was meant to go to Leeds, but for some reason the client that had pre-booked me did not get in touch and I was feeling tired and didn't want to waste any more money, so I decided to go home instead.  However I did not lose the hotel booking and will be using it for a Christmas party on Thursday instead.  I've got a 2 hour booking secured before the party, so all's well that ends well.

Worcester

You know they say home is where the heart is.  I can't help but wonder if I would have been better off staying at home all along.  I had an evening booking  upon my return with a lovely guy that I really enjoyed the company of.  We clicked quickly and we both had a lot of fun with each other.  In between 'the fun' we chatted and he told me that I had managed to do what some of his long term girlfriends had not managed.  I had made him cum twice during oral and apparently he has in the past had women cry because they could not get him to cum.  Yet there I was, having known him less than an hour, already worked out what made him tic and done it with ease.  Not that I'm showing off, but he did come again during penetration too lol.  I fell asleep with a very big smile on my face that night.

Dom

Yesterday I  met a chap who had tried to see me on a few occasions, but I had never been able to see him.  He admitted that he tended towards the dominant side and I don't think I directly told him that I had a hankering towards being submissive.  The problem is, I do find it hard to switch off and for me dominance is about intelligence, it's about me wanting that person so much, that I will do anything for them and they need to work on breaking down my barriers and getting me to the point where I would do something that normally I would never do free of my own will.  Where I do understand bondage, I'm not sure that I understand it.  I mean surely if someone does something of their own free will and not because they are forced to, then you have really cracked it.  Perhaps bondage belongs to the wannabe Dom?  They don't trust their submissive would do their will without it.

I admit that the more he talked, the more I was getting sucked in and because he was not very tactile I found myself wanting to kiss him and wanting to be penetrated by him, but it was not my place to initiate it, which as I'm sure you will understand is the reverse to my  normal situation.  I am a natural pleaser and any indication that I was doing this was enough to spur me on and make me try harder.

I'm not sure if he would choose to see me again.  I would never presume such a thing, but... I hope he does.  I really do.