Wednesday 27 July 2011

Let's make it more desirable!

Gosh being self employed brings its twists and turns and dilemmas.  It seems this month has been one for decision making and I have made yet another one!

As from today I have decided to be very generous (it's true!) and reach a compromise, so that hopefully if you can make time you will take advantage of the rates to go with the time.  What am I blathering on about you are wondering?

My beautiful apartment is great to use during the day time in the week, as generally I'm one of the only person there.  This is wonderful with regards to discretion and not upsetting any of the other residents.  However, from around 5pm onward the carpark starts to fill up and everyone is coming back home from their hard days work.  Personally I don't feel so comfortable about using the apartment to meet someone for half an hour or even an hour at this time, as I would be returning after going home and not sleeping there, so popping in and having a visitor, then popping off again, looks a bit odd.  If I'm given enough notice and I try and get there an hour or two earlier, so that it doesn't look like I have gone there fleetingly, so I'm actually spending the best part of the evening there.

My decision is that from now on during the evening and the weekends I am only open to bookings that are of 2 hours or more duration.  This makes the booking a lot more worthwhile, a more natural amount of time to be spending with a visitorm therefore more discreet and worth the trip etc.  However, as this is my choice and perhaps not something you would normally do, or you may decide that the time frame is a little too long for you (which would be your choice) I am lowering my rates during those time periods.

Normally 2 hours for an incall equals £240 and this will still apply during the day and during tours (unless stated otherwise) but after 6pm in the evening and Saturday and Sunday it will now be reduced to £200.  If you would like longer or to extend it will be £100 extra for each hour, with over night booking rates remaining the same as always.

Bearing in mind I normally charge £180 for an hour and a half, this is a really good offer and I do hope that some of my regulars who would like to spend more time with me, but unable to justify paying £240 would like to take advantage of it.  Please give me as much notice as possible when booking for these times.  The day before is preferable where possible, or even longer.

Please note that outcalls remain the same, as I have no problem keeping my minimum booking time of one hour (or half an hour within Worcester).  This offer does not apply to outcalls.

I think that is enough decision making for one month lol.

I'm in Heathrow at the moment, after arriving yesterday afternoon.  I had a great time yesterday and am looking forward to what today will bring.

Have fun, kate x

Sunday 24 July 2011

New Apartment - July 2011

It's a beautifully sunny day outside and I'm feeling rather happy.  It's 10.33am on a Sunday morning and I've already put a load of washing on the line, put another load in and put away 2 loads from yesterday.  There is something about sunshine that penetrates the heart and makes you feel sunny on the inside too.

Having had the apartment now for 3 months, I suppose I'm going to have to stop thinking of it as the 'new place'  I have to say that I am still in love with it though.  I love the space, I love that I know where everything is.  I love that I can buy myself little treats to look forward to while I'm there and not have to hide them so a certain teenager doesn't have them first, I love the presentation I can put into it, in order to give you the best experience possible and I love the calm and beautiful surroundings it offers.

However it seems that when I was buying furnishings to fill it with I may have overlooked a potential problem that has become a real problem.  I have 2 beautiful kingsize beds.  Both are firm and comfortable and generally work very well for the job in hand.  They don't squeak (I'm the one doing that) and they don't move or have any other annoying habits, but... they just are not very weight bearing.  The slats are held in place by little plastic pockets and on 3 occassions now, when a gentleman has either sat down, or rolled to the side of the bed they have been pushed out of the pockets, creating an all mighty bang and the mattress to fall through.

Admittedly on all occassions it was not difficult for the gentleman to rectify the problem and we maintained to stay more centrally based on the bed, using the metal spine to take our weight, but this is very embarrasing and very noisy, which is really the crux of the problem.  I don't want anything that is going to alert the neighbours to what is happening or to be concerned.  Thankfully the times that it has happened, I don't think anyone else was around, but you never know and it only takes one person to say something for conspiracy to start.

Solutions... I have asked for suggestions to put this right from other ladies and they did try their best bless them.  One lady suggested stacking books under the bed and yes I can see how that would work, but I'm on the top floor and that is going to be a lot of lugging and after creating the perfect setting for my seduction, I'm just not happy with the idea of anything that looks 'make do'.  Another suggestion was to put the mattress on the floor.  Yes that would probably work, accept again I'm ruining my lovely room, I'm then basically telling someone they are fat, so they can't get on the bed (good ice breaker) and potentially going to do my back in by lifting the mattress, as I'm an occasional sufferer of sciatica.  The last and best idea was to get a piece of wood cut to fit over the frame of the bed to take some of the strain.  This would possibly work, but then I worry about it moving about during play and generally being a pain in the arse.

In all honesty none of the solutions really work for me, so unless anyone can think of a better more suitable one then I have decided to impose a weight restriction to visitors for incalls.  I'm not quite sure what weight this should be, but am guessing at around 17 stone.  I understand that taller men are likely to weigh more and therefore the weight be better distributed, so I don't want to set this in stone (boom boom), but to please think before you book.  If you have been on modern beds before and had this problem, please do not book me for an incall.  If you have never had this problem then it is not likely to be a concern.

Am I saying that I won't see people over 17 stone?  Absolutely not!  I have no problem with weight at all.  If you would like me to come visit you, that is fine.  If you can't provide an outcall location then we can meet in a hotel or see me during my tour, as I won't have to worry about my beds then.  Just please be honest and let me know when you are booking that we will have to make alternative arrangements.

Gosh I feel awful having to write that, but I do really love the apartment and I don't want to lose it, so anything that draws attention to me and what I am doing is not good, let alone the life of the beds I have bought, which are really nice.  Let's face it, I can't work without them and I don't want to have to replace them as yet.  Of course if the time comes when I do have to replace one, I will put much more consideration into the base of the bed and make sure it is weight bearing.

Let's find something more cheerful to talk about.  I'm off on Tuesday for my first tour to Heathrow.  I changed my registration details on Adultwork over to Heathrow yesterday, as I am not working now prior to the tour and the phone started ringing almost immediately with some great offers, but unfortunately I had to decline them all, as I'm not there yet.  I quickly changed the heading to show my dates, which seems to have done the trick, but I am really excited about going there now, especially with abstaining from sex until the tour.

In the mean time I have been tidying and cleaning pending an inspection (an official one this time) and hope everything looks nice and fresh.  At home I have been doing the same, as I don't like leaving the house in a mess, especially as I have a messy teenager at home to create more mess.  I have blackberries growing in my garden (yes it is a little out of hand) but I have picked some lovely ripe ones and bought some apples with the intention of making a blackberry and apple pie and I have picked some damsons, which I will make some damson jam with today.  I've also bought a lovely joint of pork and am determined to get some nice crackling out of it.  It's not something I have had the greatest of success with before, but I have had some top tips from the adultworkforum on how to get it just right, so I will be putting it to the test.

That's it for now.  I don't want to waste my day on the computer, as it is so nice outside and who knows how long it will last for.  For those of you going on holiday with the family over the next 6 weeks have a lovely time, enjoy your children while you can.  They grow up far too quickly and enjoy the time away from work.  I will look forward to seeing you when you are able to see me and don't forget to use sun cream.

Kate x

Sunday 10 July 2011

What turns me on?

I often get asked this along with what is my favourite position and what do I like to wear etc.  Up until now I have been reticent to comment, as I am a true lover of variety, but... for the moment at least, I have come to realise that I do have some favourite things that really turn me on, so I thought I would share them with you and this is especially for those that care to visit me after reading my blogs.  I know there are a few of you.

So... what first?

If you tell me I can wear anything I want, I find that 8 times out of 10 I will reach for my underbust corset.  I love it because I can wear it with body stocking dresses, bodystockings matching underwear and various other garments that compliment it and serve to make lots of different looks.  I love the way it makes me feel, the shape it gives me and the fact that it seems to essentiate my breasts.  I of course, team this up with stockings and suspenders.

At this point I might add that I hate hold ups.  I don't know why exactly, but I do.  I find it very hard to find pretty stockings of good quality and due to being quite tall, as well as shapely I have to buy 'large' ones, which narrows down my choice further.  I'm not asking you to buy me them, but if you do come across a lovely pair of stockings and get the impulse to buy me them, well I would be most delighted lol.  I'd also like to know where you bought them from, so I can replenish stocks if I really like them.

If it is a dress that I am wearing due to meeting you for a meal or doing an outcall, then I love to wear wrap around dresses.  I find that they can look rather demure at first sight and elegant, but then when you pull the cord in the privacy of your bedroom, they instantly fall back to reveal either lingerie or a sexy bra set with of course the stockings and suspenders to compliment.  I love that moment of the reveal, with the eyes of an excited on looker feasting on my curves and devouring the thought of what they will do next with me.  Such a turn on!

What next?  Kissing!  I can not tell you how important a good kiss is.  I can be looking at a total stranger one minute, who seems pleasant enough and polite etc, but the moment our lips touch and start our sexual journey together I can tell if we are going to connect or not and thankfully I have met some amazing kissers.  I met  a lovely gentleman on Friday who was really well dressed, very presentable and the fabrics to his clothes were of very high quality.  When we kissed I new we were going to have a good time together and towards the end of our time together I felt the need to comment on his lovely kisses.  I thought he must have been told this before, but he said I was the first to tell him.  I was quite surprised.  What a shame that he had managed to go through half of his life without knowing?  Why do people find it so hard to compliment each other?  I hope he did not think I was saying it just to be nice, or because I want him to come back etc.  I hope he is able to take the compliment for what it was, which was geniune.

What do I like in a kiss?  I suppose this is very personal and people differ depending on the shape of their mouth and what they are used to, but for me it is tender soft kisses, lip to lip first.  Then lingering a little longer involving the tongue, just gently teasing and touching through further soft kisses.  Then moving on to more passionate kisses, with a firmer more directed kiss and deeper tongue.  This alone can make me wet and wanting more.  Follow this through with sucking my nipple and I'm in heaven!

Kissing having started the sexual juices off what next?  Well this can vary on mood and who I am with, but I love either giving or recieving oral.  Reverse oral done well is amazing and I have been very fortunate to meet a lot of men that adore licking me out and I have to admit that I love it to death.  However, there are a few things that can take me from exctacy to hitting the ceiling with orgasms (at which point I would really appreciate it if you could remind me to keep quiet).  This can be done in 2 ways.  While you are licking my clit, gently insert a finger into my pussy and rub the tip of your finger gently but rapidly over my g-spot.  This makes me cum quite strongly and feels amazing!!!!

The second way is to finger me in the way described above, but to make use of my magic wand.  Now this is a device that I didn't get on with too well when I first got it.  I just couldn't get the stimulus I needed with it when playing alone.  However, I discovered that if it is used on me with a compliant gentleman and a willing finger or two I literally go through the roof with the build up of the most powerful orgasm I have ever had and the vital component to this is your finger/s.  It just does not work unless you are there with me and I believe that having a man watch me cum like that is also part of the recipe for this powerful orgasm.  Needless to say I am delighted when I suggest we use this device and the suggestion is agreed to.

Please be gentle with me for a few seconds after the orgasm though, as I do need to get my nails back out of the ceiling before I can continue lol.  It really is that strong.  Having said that, it does leave me wanting to re-dress the balance and I'm more than ready to help you achieve your orgasm.

For those that don't care for penetration.  I have a favourite way to bring things to a close.  I love it when you are kneeling up on your knees (on the bed) and I position myself so my face is next to or under your cock and my body is lying in front of you.  If you are beautifully trimmed or shaved then I will take great pleasure in teasing and playing with your balls and looking up at you as I take your cock in my mouth and work my magic.  Then if you are able to concentrate enough, I would love for you to gently massage my clit while I take you deep in my mouth  until eventually you have to spurt your gorgeous cum all over my breasts or across my mouth and cover my body.  I then like to gently cover your cock either with my hands or mouth, very, very gently massaging and bringing you back down, still giving you eye contact and enjoying every second of having my trophy over me, that tells me you have enjoyed yourself, just as much as I have.

Lastly, once we have had a quick clean up (wet wipes, no need to leave the bed) we can have a snuggle, a little chat about whatever takes our fancy and sweet little kisses that tell either that we are enjoying each others company and on a physical high.  I love that, I love how close I can feel to someone who not much before was a total stranger, or better still, someone I have met before and continue to enjoy and look forward to seeing.  Each time is slightly different and enjoyable, but the friendship becomes stronger too and affection becomes part of the mix.

So, there you have it.  I'm still not going into detail about my favourite positions for penetration, as that does still very much vary for me, but orally I do have my favourite things to do, but as always I will believe that variety is the spice of life, so if these things do not appeal to you, then show me your way and you never know, it might become my way too!

Finally, can I say thank you to those that have spoilt me by buying me perfume.  For the moment I am well stocked, but there is some amazing coco chanel bubble bath/shower gel, body creams and soaps that are equally alluring to me and where I would never expect anything.  I would be delighted if you wanted to treat me with any of them.  No chocolates please, I'm very conscious of having put a few extra pounds on recently and they don't help lol.  Red wine?  Hmmm... well ok if you insist lol. 

I'll be in Worcester now for the best part of this month, although I'm going to be touring Heathrow on the 26th July for 3 and a half days and August is a huge touring month.  Please check the dates and locations out on my website http://www.curvaceouskate.escort-site.com/ or on adultwork.  Touring starts on the 9th August in Derby and includes Scotland and Ireland.

Kate x