Wednesday 19 September 2012

Over the hill in your 40s?

An anonymous person has contacted me via my blog and told me that I am over the hill and to face it that I am past it, oh and I should shave my little tuft off.

Now, most of the men I have met know that there is a little age difference between the age I advertise as and the age I am.  I have volunteered this information when the topic of age has come up and without bragging (ok I am a bit) it is usually because they think I am younger than the age I have stated on my profile.  I have changed it not because I have a problem with my age or because I thought I would get more work, but because I was concerned that family or friends might identify me, as there are not many red heads working in the area I live in.  Anything that deviates from the truth is worthwhile in my eyes.

If you would like to know my real age, just get in touch, where I can contact you in private and I will gladly tell you.  If this changes your mind on me or wanting to meet me, then so be it.  I'm not worried about that, it is immaterial in comparison to the heart ache being discovered would cause.

 
Taken 20th Sept 2012 - Not looking too haggard I hope?


Now, back on topic.  Do you think that ladies in their 40s are past it?  That they should hang their stockings up and admit defeat?  Or do they also have something to offer?  Can they be sexy, sensual and cause a stir in the trouser department?

Last week it was my birthday and I celebrated the whole week, with clients, friends and family.  I feel younger in my heart, than I did 20 years ago.  I also got 3 Field Reports written and have another one on the way from a booking I took just yesterday.  Yes I know about it, as he messaged me after to thank me and tell me he would be returning and writing one.  Of course I am delighted, as all through my life I have seeked acceptance and confirmation that I'm making people happy, because I am a people pleaser by nature and it makes me happy.

I personally don't really understand the mentality of men who feel that age is a negative.  Women in their 50s and 60s can be glamorous.  It's more about looking after yourself and having the confidence to exude sexual energy.



So... my anonymous commentor, who doesn't have the balls to bitch at me to the face.  What is it about you, that can not accept a woman who is maybe older and protecting her family?  Why do you have to write snide messages implying that I am not proud of the age I am and that I am over the hill?  I have my reasons and have stated them loud and clear on numerous occassions.  If what you say is true, why do people keep booking me and keep reviewing me?  It's not like I'm the cheapest Escort in town.

Perhaps you need to look at yourself first?