Monday 15 October 2012

Prostate Massage

This week I experienced another first.  I had invited in a new client and we were generally getting to know each others bodies and having some fun when I noticed he was particularly enjoying having his balls played with, then this developed as my hand went a little lower I realised he was encouraging me to run around his anal area.  I don't generally do anal play (either way), it's not something I actively enjoy, but I could see how turned on he was by it and didn't really want to spoil it for him.  I decided to ask him outright if he was sensitive down there and his face lit up and he said he enjoyed it very much.

After a little debate with myself I told him I had some gloves and would he like me to get one so I could give him a little more attention, but I did also tell him that I was relatively inexperienced, so he would have to guide me.  I got a glove, put it on and added a little lube to the end and very gently started to massage the outer ring of his anal area.  I could see he was enjoying the experience very much.  He then encouraged me to go a little deeper and a little deeper until my full finger was inserted and gently rubbing away.

Not being experienced I thought about the positioning of my g-spot and what works for me and aimed for around that area.  This is centrally located around the middle of where my now brazillion is located and happily it seemed to hit the spot perfectly.  I could feel him wriggling under my touch and so I decided to up the anti and took him in my mouth, while maintaining a constant rubbing action with my finger.  The results were amazing when finally he told me he was going to come and being new to me I quickly swapped my mouth for my hand and brought him to completion.  Obviously I know that he came due to the sticky mess he made, but at the same time he came outwardly I felt a pressure and release around his prostrate and for the first time in my life felt a man cum via his prostrate.  It was such an exhiliating experience and I was so pleased with myself and his reaction, it was totally amazing.

Being curious to exactly what had happened I looked it up on the internet and this is the information that I found...

The G-Spot or Sacred Spot of a man is his prostate gland. Tantric philosophy considers the G-Spot a man's emotional sex center. Massaging the man's prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical stress. Coupled with stimulation of his penis or "lingam", massaging his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and healing to the man. Since the most direct way to massage the man's Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes time to adjust to being penetrated in this way. It is not for every man. The benefits are many and the pleasure can be very intense. For tantric partners, lovers or those otherwise genuinely comfortable with one another, massaging the sacred spot can be a powerful experience. Not only in terms of ecstatic pleasure for the "receiver", but in the sexual empowerment it bestows on the "giver".

The walnut sized prostate gland is located directly underneath the bladder, not far from the internal root of the penis (see diagram). As can be seen, the gland is in close proximity to the rectal wall, allowing for easy access through the anus.

Why is prostate massage pleasurable? There are number of reasons:

Ejaculation reflex sensation
No matter which method is used it is not possible to touch the prostate directly. The nearest indirect access is through the rectal wall, which means that there is still a membrane in the way. This is somewhat akin to the inhibiting sensitivity a glove. Despite this restriction the lobes of the prostrate are highly sensitive to pressure. An array of sensations may be produced by pressing, rubbing or by means of stroking the gland through the rectal wall. The most profound of these feelings is similar to that sublime sensation which is normally felt during ejaculation, as the prostate begins pumping semen.
 
 Would I do it again?  Yes and very happy to.  I've never seen such a completely overwhelming and totally absorbing reaction before, which seemed close to the times that I have a deep orgasm.  The type of orgasm that touches every fibre of your body and brings the emotions to the surface.  If I can achieve that for you, then I am more than happy to do it.  So it seems that yet another one of my bounderies has been lifted and I'm so pleased that I took the step to do this for the client, as he was a lovely chap and I really enjoyed his company.  A real cup half full type.

I warn you that I am very new to this though, so please do give guidance and have patience if you like it done in a particular way.  I also need to make sure I have some gloves with me, so let me know on booking if this is a service you would be interested in.

Another string to my bow!

Kate x



Thursday 11 October 2012

Massage, Essential Oils & Aromatherapy

Massage is something that I offered with much trepidation when I first started Escorting, but as time has gone by I have not only grown in confidence, but come to realise just how it can totally transform the experience, relaxing both the body and mind.

While I was touring Dublin not so long ago, I was lucky enough to be booked by a lovely gentleman who offered to give me an hour long massage.  He started by producing some oil that he had personally put together and requested a bowl of hot water to put the bottle of oil into.  Then he lay me on my tummy and proceeded to gently massage my whole body from top to bottom.  Admittedly this was a little spicier than your regular massage, as he combined it with a little tantric massage, which was very sensual.  This finally ended with a sarong being put over me and slowly, very gently past along my body, which was so sensitive at this point, I could feel every inch, as it moved across my body.

I knew then that this was something I needed to offer my clients and finally 2 months later, I have put my thoughts into action.  Here is what I propose...

Stimulating Aromatheric Bath
 
The booking will start with a relaxing bath with the scent of essential oils.  The oils will be selected dependent on your needs.  I will be offering baths and massages to combat several of the stresses that both your mind and body may be under with the rigours of a busy and full life.
 
The bathroom will be candle lit with the lights off, to give you a truely relaxing atmosphere and you will be submerged for approx 10 minutes.  During this time you can take the bath by yourself and use it to empty your mind of the days stresses and strains or I can join you in the bath, sitting behind you and giving you a shoulder and head massage.
 
 
After the bath I will help dry you off with a large egyptian cotton towel and you will come through to the bedroom where there will be another towel lay out on the bed for you to lie on.
 
You can select what kind of treatment you would like from:
 
Stimulating poor circulation
Loneliness
Mental fatigue
Low self-Esteem
Poor Memory
Exhaustion & Fatigue
Stress & Anxiety
 
The oils used will be specifically selected for you and your needs, starting from the bath onward.
 
Massage
 
You can choose from a 10 minute massage as a 'quick fix' to your immediate needs or a 40 minute massage, which will be more in depth and give you a longer lasting feeling of well being.  The first option will concentrate on your back, buttox and legs, while the longer massage will work both the back and the front.  The massage is meant to relax and stimulate.  It is not a sports massage for deep tissue manipulation, but much more gentle and sensual.
 
 
What makes this massage unique?
 
That would be me!  I will be taking a much more 'hands on' approach and the option of oral gratification is also on offer.  This includes reverse oral on myself if you enjoy giving as much as recieving.  A truely happy ending that should leave you feeling stimulated from top to toe and ready to face the world with renewed vigour.
 
When will this new service be available?
 
I will be offering this service as from November.  Once I have assessed my expenses and done a little training to make sure that I am offering the best service possible, I will add this information to the blog, so keep an eye out.  Please note the 'happy ending' is optional.  If you would just like the bath and massage and to be with a woman who is happy with her body and sensuality, that is absolutely fine.
 
Your opinions and ideas with this at it's infancy are very welcome and appreciated.  Please do leave comments, as they could be vital to the service offered at this point, before I start in November.
 
Kate x


Tuesday 9 October 2012

Halloween!!!

Please vote for me!!!  I have entered the Adultwork Halloween picture competition and literally just submitted 26 pictures.  All free to see, but I would love you to vote for me. 

I hope you like them.

Link >> Click here

Kate x 

Here is an example of one of the pictures I have entered...