Now, most of the men I have met know that there is a little age difference between the age I advertise as and the age I am. I have volunteered this information when the topic of age has come up and without bragging (ok I am a bit) it is usually because they think I am younger than the age I have stated on my profile. I have changed it not because I have a problem with my age or because I thought I would get more work, but because I was concerned that family or friends might identify me, as there are not many red heads working in the area I live in. Anything that deviates from the truth is worthwhile in my eyes.
If you would like to know my real age, just get in touch, where I can contact you in private and I will gladly tell you. If this changes your mind on me or wanting to meet me, then so be it. I'm not worried about that, it is immaterial in comparison to the heart ache being discovered would cause.
Taken 20th Sept 2012 - Not looking too haggard I hope?
Now, back on topic. Do you think that ladies in their 40s are past it? That they should hang their stockings up and admit defeat? Or do they also have something to offer? Can they be sexy, sensual and cause a stir in the trouser department?
Last week it was my birthday and I celebrated the whole week, with clients, friends and family. I feel younger in my heart, than I did 20 years ago. I also got 3 Field Reports written and have another one on the way from a booking I took just yesterday. Yes I know about it, as he messaged me after to thank me and tell me he would be returning and writing one. Of course I am delighted, as all through my life I have seeked acceptance and confirmation that I'm making people happy, because I am a people pleaser by nature and it makes me happy.
I personally don't really understand the mentality of men who feel that age is a negative. Women in their 50s and 60s can be glamorous. It's more about looking after yourself and having the confidence to exude sexual energy.
So... my anonymous commentor, who doesn't have the balls to bitch at me to the face. What is it about you, that can not accept a woman who is maybe older and protecting her family? Why do you have to write snide messages implying that I am not proud of the age I am and that I am over the hill? I have my reasons and have stated them loud and clear on numerous occassions. If what you say is true, why do people keep booking me and keep reviewing me? It's not like I'm the cheapest Escort in town.
Perhaps you need to look at yourself first?
I can't think of a time when age was of less relevance than it is today. Our Grandparents were old at 50, a lifetime of hard physical work behind them. Now 40 and 50 is a springboard to the next part of your life.
ReplyDeleteIts your anonymous writer who is old fashioned and out of step. The prime of life, and our expectations have shifted, we want more, we strive for more.
Experience is a commodity you cannot buy,and for those who can't see past a number or a media driven obsession with an image of 'yoof' you are missing out on so much.
I would point him towards your blog from December last year. http://kissxkate.blogspot.co.uk/2011/12/thank-god-for-meryl-streep.html
That article said it far better then I could.
Your inner awesomeness hasn't diminished since you wrote that,It's become enhanced...with age!
David
Thank you David x It sometimes seems like we are stuck in a perpetual cycle, where the same drivel keeps being regurgitated and yet the whole time I am being booked, reviewed and enjoyed by many from the young to more mature. Some who seek my lifeskills so they can learn, some that seek familiarity and compassion and others that purely see me as a sexual being they desire.
ReplyDeleteIt baffles me why some are so closed in their mind and unaccepting of others. Why they can't accept that not everyone thinks and feels the same as they do. How do you go through like so blinkered and survive? It must at times be a lonely life, where you can only enjoy the company of others that agree with you, as sometimes you may be sat on your own, wondering why everyone else has got it all so wrong.
" Not looking too haggard I hope?"
ReplyDeleteShocking, truly shocking. lol
In fact that first photo reminds me of our first meeting, and there in lies the difference.
Your anonymous critic has never met you, or booked you, so who is he to judge? Those of us who have, retain memories of spending time with the most vibrant, passionate and 'alive' woman, I for one, have ever met.
ps.Can I make an advance booking for your 50th birthday please? That will give me a few years of training to get my stamina up in readiness.
David x
Hey there, long time reader but rare poster - felt compelled to comment on this. You can only assume the anonymous writer isn't blessed with the gift of sight.
ReplyDeleteSince we're all age-sharing, I'm in my early twenties and feel there's not much sexier than an 'older' (for want of a better word) woman who is confident in her skin. That's why I like to read this blog.
PS - Keep your little tuft exactly where it is please!
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking the time to write. You sound like someone I would love to meet. If you're ever tempted you know where to find me xx Age also has nothing to do with maturity and you certainly seem to have the edge there. The tuft is staying!!!! lol xx
DeleteIt's a terrible thing that one off comment has the potential to smother ten positive ones, that's the way we tend to be...I certainly wouldn't have thought that you were anywhere near the age you claim to be at all if it wasn't stated, you look great, and that's not an age related comment, you just look good, attractive and womanly. I wouldn't worry too much about the weight either, I think from seeing some of your pictures that you're the type to carry weight in a very enticing womanly way - I guess you know that though, hence your user name! The pictures of the PVC corset from June are...intoxicating!
ReplyDelete"Or do I remember who I am and leave it as a moment in time that was pleasurable, but short lived?"
I also read your more recent entry about adventures on the ferry, I have to confess it was both an enjoyable and striking read, the particular line above really stood out to me, somehow...is that a reference to what it is you do for a living? I have to confess that I am curious about it, and as to how open you would be about what you do, or say, did, in the future when you settle down. I suppose above all, first and foremost you're still just a normal woman with a heart full of emotion and need just like any other, which is why it genuinely bums me out to read the story about that guy who afforded you so little respect as a person in your recent entry. I would wonder does he go home to a girlfriend or wife to treat in that manner, or is it that he feels its OK to view as escort as a toy first, and woman second...
Anyway, sorry for rambling, do keep writing, it's actually fascinating reading.
Does it have to be short lived? I do come back home sometimes lol.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your comments and no not rambling, but thought provoking and you are right that I should not put more merit into one or two negative comments and ignore the ones that matter. Ie, from the ones that have met me.
Thank you x